Neither of you helped lol.
Let me rephrase this... It was given to me, and at first I thought it was a women's kurti, but when I tried it on, its much longer than I thought, and rounded at the bottom, and also has buttons at the top so it kind of looks like a men's kurta like men would wear with kurta / pyjama. But then, the embroidery... I have never seen men wear something like it, so I still think it's more a ladies style...
I just don't know whethere to keep it and wear with jeans or give it as a gift??
As for the embroidery I am pretty sure it's northern... if not Kashmiri.