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Gurbani (14-53)
Ashtpadiyan (53-71)
Gurbani (71-74)
Pahre (74-78)
Chhant (78-81)
Vanjara (81-82)
Vaar Siri Raag (83-91)
Bhagat Bani (91-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਝ | Raag Maajh
Gurbani (94-109)
Ashtpadi (109)
Ashtpadiyan (110-129)
Ashtpadi (129-130)
Ashtpadiyan (130-133)
Bara Maha (133-136)
Din Raen (136-137)
Vaar Maajh Ki (137-150)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗਉੜੀ | Raag Gauree
Gurbani (151-185)
Quartets/Couplets (185-220)
Ashtpadiyan (220-234)
Karhalei (234-235)
Ashtpadiyan (235-242)
Chhant (242-249)
Baavan Akhari (250-262)
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Baavan Akhari (340-343)
Thintteen (343-344)
Vaar Kabir (344-345)
Bhagat Bani (345-346)
ਰਾਗੁ ਆਸਾ | Raag Aasaa
Gurbani (347-348)
Chaupaday (348-364)
Panchpadde (364-365)
Kaafee (365-409)
Aasaavaree (409-411)
Ashtpadiyan (411-432)
Patee (432-435)
Chhant (435-462)
Vaar Aasaa (462-475)
Bhagat Bani (475-488)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੂਜਰੀ | Raag Goojaree
Gurbani (489-503)
Ashtpadiyan (503-508)
Vaar Gujari (508-517)
Vaar Gujari (517-526)
ਰਾਗੁ ਦੇਵਗੰਧਾਰੀ | Raag Dayv-Gandhaaree
Gurbani (527-536)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਹਾਗੜਾ | Raag Bihaagraa
Gurbani (537-556)
Chhant (538-548)
Vaar Bihaagraa (548-556)
ਰਾਗੁ ਵਡਹੰਸ | Raag Wadhans
Gurbani (557-564)
Ashtpadiyan (564-565)
Chhant (565-575)
Ghoriaan (575-578)
Alaahaniiaa (578-582)
Vaar Wadhans (582-594)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੋਰਠਿ | Raag Sorath
Gurbani (595-634)
Asatpadhiya (634-642)
Vaar Sorath (642-659)
ਰਾਗੁ ਧਨਾਸਰੀ | Raag Dhanasaree
Gurbani (660-685)
Astpadhiya (685-687)
Chhant (687-691)
Bhagat Bani (691-695)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਤਸਰੀ | Raag Jaitsree
Gurbani (696-703)
Chhant (703-705)
Vaar Jaitsaree (705-710)
Bhagat Bani (710)
ਰਾਗੁ ਟੋਡੀ | Raag Todee
ਰਾਗੁ ਬੈਰਾੜੀ | Raag Bairaaree
ਰਾਗੁ ਤਿਲੰਗ | Raag Tilang
Gurbani (721-727)
Bhagat Bani (727)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸੂਹੀ | Raag Suhi
Gurbani (728-750)
Ashtpadiyan (750-761)
Kaafee (761-762)
Suchajee (762)
Gunvantee (763)
Chhant (763-785)
Vaar Soohee (785-792)
Bhagat Bani (792-794)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਿਲਾਵਲੁ | Raag Bilaaval
Gurbani (795-831)
Ashtpadiyan (831-838)
Thitteen (838-840)
Vaar Sat (841-843)
Chhant (843-848)
Vaar Bilaaval (849-855)
Bhagat Bani (855-858)
ਰਾਗੁ ਗੋਂਡ | Raag Gond
Gurbani (859-869)
Ashtpadiyan (869)
Bhagat Bani (870-875)
ਰਾਗੁ ਰਾਮਕਲੀ | Raag Ramkalee
Ashtpadiyan (902-916)
Gurbani (876-902)
Anand (917-922)
Sadd (923-924)
Chhant (924-929)
Dakhnee (929-938)
Sidh Gosat (938-946)
Vaar Ramkalee (947-968)
ਰਾਗੁ ਨਟ ਨਾਰਾਇਨ | Raag Nat Narayan
Gurbani (975-980)
Ashtpadiyan (980-983)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਲੀ ਗਉੜਾ | Raag Maalee Gauraa
Gurbani (984-988)
Bhagat Bani (988)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਾਰੂ | Raag Maaroo
Gurbani (889-1008)
Ashtpadiyan (1008-1014)
Kaafee (1014-1016)
Ashtpadiyan (1016-1019)
Anjulian (1019-1020)
Solhe (1020-1033)
Dakhni (1033-1043)
ਰਾਗੁ ਤੁਖਾਰੀ | Raag Tukhaari
Bara Maha (1107-1110)
Chhant (1110-1117)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕੇਦਾਰਾ | Raag Kedara
Gurbani (1118-1123)
Bhagat Bani (1123-1124)
ਰਾਗੁ ਭੈਰਉ | Raag Bhairo
Gurbani (1125-1152)
Partaal (1153)
Ashtpadiyan (1153-1167)
ਰਾਗੁ ਬਸੰਤੁ | Raag Basant
Gurbani (1168-1187)
Ashtpadiyan (1187-1193)
Vaar Basant (1193-1196)
ਰਾਗੁ ਸਾਰਗ | Raag Saarag
Gurbani (1197-1200)
Partaal (1200-1231)
Ashtpadiyan (1232-1236)
Chhant (1236-1237)
Vaar Saarang (1237-1253)
ਰਾਗੁ ਮਲਾਰ | Raag Malaar
Gurbani (1254-1293)
Partaal (1265-1273)
Ashtpadiyan (1273-1278)
Chhant (1278)
Vaar Malaar (1278-91)
Bhagat Bani (1292-93)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਾਨੜਾ | Raag Kaanraa
Gurbani (1294-96)
Partaal (1296-1318)
Ashtpadiyan (1308-1312)
Chhant (1312)
Vaar Kaanraa
Bhagat Bani (1318)
ਰਾਗੁ ਕਲਿਆਨ | Raag Kalyaan
Gurbani (1319-23)
Ashtpadiyan (1323-26)
ਰਾਗੁ ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ | Raag Prabhaatee
Gurbani (1327-1341)
Ashtpadiyan (1342-51)
ਰਾਗੁ ਜੈਜਾਵੰਤੀ | Raag Jaijaiwanti
Gurbani (1352-53)
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Sehskritee Mahala 1
Sehskritee Mahala 5
Gaathaa Mahala 5
Phunhay Mahala 5
Chaubolae Mahala 5
Shaloks Bhagat Kabir
Shaloks Sheikh Farid
Swaiyyae Mahala 5
Swaiyyae in Praise of Gurus
Shaloks in Addition To Vaars
Shalok Ninth Mehl
Mundavanee Mehl 5
ਰਾਗ ਮਾਲਾ, Raag Maalaa
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<blockquote data-quote="Ambarsaria" data-source="post: 202977" data-attributes="member: 14194"><p>Seeker2013 ji thanks for </p><p></p><p>You have asked the following questions:</p><p></p><p style="margin-left: 20px">1) his childhood gender non-conformity lead to him to develop feelings for same-sex ?? OR was it that</p> <p style="margin-left: 20px">2) he was childhood gender non-conforming because he was gender-atypical to begin with ! </p><p></p><p>One of the mysteries of life is that not all is known. It is not unknown for people of same sex showing affection towards each other. The pubescent age of 10 or so plus initiates tremendous chemical changes in our bodies. At such juncture probably experimentation, etc., in subjects sexual can occur and it is impacted by the sociology-cultural as well as the family set up. Physically, apart from some under cover anatomical differences there are few differences between boys and girls at that time. Question you can pose to yourself is if you were in co-ed school and you could easily would have been flirting childishly with same age girl. With More restrictive the environment, more strongly the people will break one way or another. Simple concepts/feelings could develop into obsessive attitude and behaviors whether internalized or outwardly displayed. It can also possibly lead into obsessive desire to prove righteousness of one's ways as one grows up and matures past teenage years. Your questions almost point to the fact that you are looking to justify how you are based on one or more positive answers to your two questions. You can look at all combinations (there are 4) of yes/no answers to these questions! I want you to ponder if the answer to both your questions is NO and NO what will be your future line of thought! I am not proposing that NO/NO is the right combo but when one wants to be honest with oneself then even the unpalatable ideas need to be considered.</p><p></p><p>Are there forks in the road to determine attraction toward same sex or opposite sex for the rest of one's life? Science and sociology from what I know have not nailed it down. Using phrases like gender atypical, etc., does not lead to an answer but simply creates a way to categorize the question.</p><p></p><p>It is a given that you me and all around did not come about from same sex relationships. So humanity and the human race grew in numbers out of heterosexual relationships. Question gets raised again if at some point in human race growth, just the sheer growth in numbers will create attributes in the population where not all need to be involved in procreation! Is this a built in safety valve to cap uncontrolled population growth! I have no answers but it is a very fascinating subject in itself. I know disease like aids, pollution, our abilities to develop weapons so we can destroy millions of each other continue to progress unabated. Would we eventually go extinct at our own hands or there is an asteroid hurling towards us to help us return to the base atoms and photons that form the basis of all!</p><p></p><p>I realize for you it is a question of great personal interest. However I wish I could share with you anything based on facts but unfortunately I am not aware of such. I have given you some logical thoughts and ideas and I have no interest to prove you are right or wrong as to how you are or want to be.</p><p></p><p>Sat Sri Akal.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ambarsaria, post: 202977, member: 14194"] Seeker2013 ji thanks for [B][/B] You have asked the following questions: [INDENT]1) his childhood gender non-conformity lead to him to develop feelings for same-sex ?? OR was it that 2) he was childhood gender non-conforming because he was gender-atypical to begin with ! [/INDENT] One of the mysteries of life is that not all is known. It is not unknown for people of same sex showing affection towards each other. The pubescent age of 10 or so plus initiates tremendous chemical changes in our bodies. At such juncture probably experimentation, etc., in subjects sexual can occur and it is impacted by the sociology-cultural as well as the family set up. Physically, apart from some under cover anatomical differences there are few differences between boys and girls at that time. Question you can pose to yourself is if you were in co-ed school and you could easily would have been flirting childishly with same age girl. With More restrictive the environment, more strongly the people will break one way or another. Simple concepts/feelings could develop into obsessive attitude and behaviors whether internalized or outwardly displayed. It can also possibly lead into obsessive desire to prove righteousness of one's ways as one grows up and matures past teenage years. Your questions almost point to the fact that you are looking to justify how you are based on one or more positive answers to your two questions. You can look at all combinations (there are 4) of yes/no answers to these questions! I want you to ponder if the answer to both your questions is NO and NO what will be your future line of thought! I am not proposing that NO/NO is the right combo but when one wants to be honest with oneself then even the unpalatable ideas need to be considered. Are there forks in the road to determine attraction toward same sex or opposite sex for the rest of one's life? Science and sociology from what I know have not nailed it down. Using phrases like gender atypical, etc., does not lead to an answer but simply creates a way to categorize the question. It is a given that you me and all around did not come about from same sex relationships. So humanity and the human race grew in numbers out of heterosexual relationships. Question gets raised again if at some point in human race growth, just the sheer growth in numbers will create attributes in the population where not all need to be involved in procreation! Is this a built in safety valve to cap uncontrolled population growth! I have no answers but it is a very fascinating subject in itself. I know disease like aids, pollution, our abilities to develop weapons so we can destroy millions of each other continue to progress unabated. Would we eventually go extinct at our own hands or there is an asteroid hurling towards us to help us return to the base atoms and photons that form the basis of all! I realize for you it is a question of great personal interest. However I wish I could share with you anything based on facts but unfortunately I am not aware of such. I have given you some logical thoughts and ideas and I have no interest to prove you are right or wrong as to how you are or want to be. Sat Sri Akal. [/QUOTE]
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