What do Sikh Women look for in men?

Since we already have a thread on what Sikh men look for in women, its only right that we also hear from sikh women. What qualities do you look for in men? This is not exclusive to romantic relationships...what do you admire most about all the men in your lives: fathers, brothers and of course husbands etc?

And what do you admire least?
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OK, my perfect man. Guys, please don't get defensive. Very few, if any achieve perfection.

...to start on the outside and journey inward.

First I look for a full kes and a well-tied turban. I admit, I love the appearance of Punjabi men, but I'm sure the gora Sikhs are quite handsome, as well.
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Next, since I am a woman, I prefer a man who respects me as a woman and cherishes my woman-ness. I do not mean this in a sexual-physical way (unless I'm talking about my husband), I mean that we now know that the female brain and the male brain work a bit differently. I promise that if he'll cherish this in me, I'll cherish his man brain, too. (If not, I make no promises.)
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He must be interested in social justice and causes beyond his immediate self-concerns. He must be willing to put himself out a little or a lot for what he believes is right.

I keep getting interrupted, so I'll just give a summary.

My ideal man is a real Khalsa with a sense of humour. That's it. A chardi kala Gursikh Khalsa.

My ideal man would be someone who accepted me for who I am. Of course someone with kesh and turban goes without saying!

Hmmmmmmmmmmm. I think we all most likely look for similar things. I specifically Love! If a person is able to give you love then there is no need to look for anything else. Love is hard to find but it does exist. Till we find it, we tend to look for personality traits that attract us.

From my experience:

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Bank Balance!

Unfortunately this is often true.

I am sure that there are Singhs who would not turn down a rich Singhni

You're joking, of course! All our beloved Singhs are of the highest possible character, far beyond the desire for material wealth. In a wife they are looking only for a life's companion to walk by their side with love and confidence, strong and independent, compassionate and intelligent. A true Khalsa.

And, of course, drop dead gorgeous.

Well even a glance of any matrimonial site of India could tell that in any community of India the first pre condition to contact the parents and girl is The financial status and income of boy.Only after that other things come

But in the case of boy the above may not be true.many many boys may prefer to marry fair skinned beauties than marrying rich girls.

so here both parties are have different priorities for life partners.