Mocking, or making light of the OP's situation by joking about being a lesbian trapped in a man's body? Might be all fun and games for you, but you're seemingly trivializing the OP's very real plight and suffering. I wonder what you call that, living the teachings, being "witty", or whatever you like.
Since you're so fond of copying definitions from dictionaries for the dim-witted like me, here's a word you ought to look up: empathy.
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Even when I am away from the forum, I am often reminded of one quote of one of our members here , who had posted this in one of my threads a few months back
I really really believe that if you have full faith in His support, then the Universe wil conspire to change things for you...for the better...
I also sometimes google verses from the quran sharif , because I believe ultimately all scriptures whether quran , SGGS or gita , all are same words of god in different languages .
One day I came across this verse:
"Remember me, I will remember you" - Quran 2:152.
I liked it , full of love. So I try to remember waheguru , so that waheguru remembers me
I still have "miracles" in my life on daily basis. God never ceases to surprise me. Things happen which almost sound like god saying "Hey kid, this was your plan. This is mine plan, even better. Things don't always happen your way, I hope its clear to you now"
Day before yesterday , I had to go to client location with an expensive biometric device. I had bought the device from the office day before evening but forgot the plug at office itself. So had to pick a rickshaw to get there in the office first and then headed to client's office. What would have costed me a mere 100Rs ,costed me 600 plus !
I was kind of sad. at the end of the day, when I reached home, my father gave me a pocket money of 5000 . God speaks through such small things that happen in our lives .
He took something less from me and gave me even more better
Yesterday , it was satuday, the boss was not in sight. So I felt I should leave a hour earlier than what I do. At the same time, hoping the boss doesn't spot me or worse question why I am leaving earlier. Little did I knew he would greet me with a smile at the ground floor and give me a lift in his car to my nearest bus stop .
God never ceases to surprise me . The current job i have, I had not even prepared for the interview , was without any experience and with a four year gap in my resume . Wasn't even prepared for the technical round , but whatever 2% I had read, all interview question came from that2% and before I knew it, I got selected . Later I came to knew, a sikh man was already working in the company and he worked so well, boss assumed same about me and I was hired in split second .
Gurbani says "Tum hi kaaran karan" (You O lord are the cause behind all causes).
He makes 'sanjog' for us even when we don't know what will happen
Another beautiful verse from the quran
"And whosoever fears Allah, He will create for him a way out. And He will provide for him from where he doesn’t expect." - Quran 65:2-3
I don't know what my future is, it seems all bleak right now , but I try my best to keep my faith in him and all that he has said via scriptures and I trust in him that he will help me make a way out of this.
"Sagal ki chinta jis man maahe, tis te birtha koi nahe" (He in whose hearts is care for all beings , nobody returns empty-handed from such god)