Since I was 8 years old I wanted to become a boy, I told my family and friends about it but they said it was a phase and in a few months/years I'll get over it, but that's the thing I never did. As I grew older I took more likings into girls rather then guys, but to me it felt right. So when I was 13 years old I came out to everyone that I'm a lesbian. Buh now things have changed, from a full on lesbian I want to be a transsexual, I'd been thinking of it since even before I knew I was lesbian, so that is why I joined this site today so I can ask questions and get answers for what ever I wanted to know. I know that its believed to be that God said we should never judge people .. But even after explaining myself time and time again I still get people who look down on my and talk about me behind my back but when they want/need something I would b the first person they would ask. And now that I'm 18 I really need help, I want to be a good daughter and a good Sikh but I'm a lesbian who wants to be transsexual .. What do yu think, am I doing the right thing by making myself happy and making myself feel comfortable with the person I want to be or shall I listen to people who constantly want to put me down and who think I'm doing wrong .. Please tell me what yu think.