I got a cab home yesterday, Sian was working late, I was tired, cold, I got in to see one of those cheery cab drivers that you just do not want to see when you are cold and tired. Hows life he said ****, I replied Oh, he said, sorry about that how about you? I said Oh, my life is great, he went on to tell me about all his contentment, the long walks he enjoys with his wife, his dog, grandchildren, children, and the best thing, was at Christmas when all his family sat round the table, just the best thing in the world, he went on and on, he really was the most contented man I had ever met, as we approached my house, and I paid him, I leaned back in and said can I ask you a question? sure, he replied You have no sex drive do you? he paused, thought, and then replied quietly, no, that has never been important to me I leaned out, smiled, and said, that is why you are so content. he smiled back, rather have a walk and a cup of tea waved and drove off.