Friends, As a few of you may know, I'm blessed with a wonderful son with autism. Someone was suggesting to me the other day that we should do Darshan at our local Nanaksar gurdwara especially on the days of pooranmashi for a special blessing for our son. Now, i'm from the Sikhi camp of inner spiritualism and practicality and don't fall into ritualistic practices. So when this person told me this, who I trust and respect, it left me a bit conflicted but wanting to know more behind this belief. Can anyone shed some light on this belief and perspective? Is it right for me to feel conflicted? Bless.