dear hannah
aad0002 has given you excellent advice.i must say she has the real sikh attituide
btw here is the bhai gurdas ji's vaar about who is a sikh.the shabads of bhai gurdas ji's
are not in guru granth sahib but are considered important of sikhism.
Vaaran Bhai Gurdas :Vaar3Pauri20:SearchGurbani.com
Vaar 3 Pauri 20 Who is the acknowledged Sikh
siqgur srxI jwie sIs invwieAw]
sathigur saranee jaae sees nivaaeiaa||
He is true Sikh who surrenders before the Guru and bows his head;
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gur crnI icq lwie mQw lwieAw]
gur charanee chith laae mathhaa laaeiaa||
Who puts his mind and forehead on the feet of Guru;
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gurmiq irdY vswie Awp gvwieAw]
guramath ridhai vasaae aap gavaaeiaa||
Who holding dear to his heart the teachings of the Guru expels ego from his self;
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gurmuK shj suBwie Bwxw BwieAw]
guramukh sehaj subhaae bhaanaa bhaaeiaa||
Who loves the will of Lord and has attained equipoise by becoming Guru-oriented, gurmukh;
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Sbd suriq ilv lwie hukm kmwieAw]
shabadh surath liv laae hukam kamaaeiaa||
Who by merging his consciousness in the Word has acted according to the divine Will (hukam).
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swD sMgq BY Bwie inj Gr pwieAw]
saadhh sangath bhai bhaae nij ghar paaeiaa||
He (the true Sikh) as the result of his love and fear of holy congregation attains his own self (atma).
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crn kml pqIAwie Bvr luBwieAw]
charan kamal patheeaae bhavar lubhaaeiaa||
He remains stuck to the lotus feet of the Guru like the black bee.
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suK sMpq prcwie Aimau pIAwieAw]
sukh sanpath parachaae amio peeaaeiaa||
Getting enevloped in this delight he goes on quaffing the nectar.
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DMn jxyNdI mwie sihlw AwieAw ]òú]ó]
dhhann janaenadhee maae sehilaa aaeiaa ||aa||a||
Blest is the mother of such a person. Only his coming to this world is fruitful.
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