Waheguru ji ka khalsa!Waheguru ji ki fateh! B'coz u all r GurSikh I wanna ask u smth the person to whom I am gng to marry ask frm me my nude pics. Mrg nu 4-5 months aur bache hai....I believe him & also he had convinced me to show my nude pics & videos as according to him it will make the relation stronger as a hubby-wife relation is 1st for sex. I had showed him pics and videos. But now my self-esteem is not allowing me to do that, so I had talked with him that I am feeling that it is Manmat but he is not satisfied with my talk. I also said him that only 4-5 months are left so plz wait have patience. But according to him he will suffer alot if this will happen. But what should I do now? I am feeling mental torture. Feeling that this is Manmat. But according to him Sikhi rules doesn't come in personal life. I am very worried. I can't show him pics/videos more b'coz my self-esteem is not allowing me. Also I am unable to break the relation as I had already showed him my pics...... DO HELP ME......I REALLY NEED ADVICE......POSITIVE WORDS,..... WAT SHOULD I DO? I m feeling that I can't go back & I can't go forward b4 mrg. Do advice wat to do in this condition? Since we r gng to marry but b4 mrg this things are manmat? He is saying me to break the relation if u can't show pics/videos......... He is saying u have showed me ur pics then u fought, then again I convinced u then again u showed eda kini var ho chuka, I think ur pshyco jo meri gal tavahnu smjha ni aha rahi aur jo tusi kar chuke hun ahapni life banao pics dekhande raho aur mera toha oh sare hak miluga sadi mrg vi hogi, nahi toha zida ik girl da divource ho janda aur oh rondi rehandi ahakela oda ronde raho sari life. I will not marry u. He said"hun jo kar hi chuke ho ode toha kyu picha hatha rahe, picha hathan nal nukasan hi hou tavada. Tusi dikha vi chuka aur hun dikhao ga taha mrg hougi nahi toha nahi"