Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh. I have this question in my mind for so long and I wanted to get the right answers. I have heard a lot that it's not us who find a partner, it depends on "sanjog" that God has already made these planning for us with whom we will get married and all. I also once heard the katha in which Giani Sant Singh ji Maskeen says that what will happen will and what won't will never, i mean does this go with everything in our life? CHINTA TA KI KIJIAI, JO ANHONI HOE No matter what we try to do what is meant to happen will and what won't will never? Is this meant to be understood this way? So if something happens in our life it was meant to happen? Thank you for reading and replying. Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh.