Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!! Today, i was at the store with my family and my mother wanted me to wear earrings. I already have my ears peirced from when i was a child but havent worn them for about 4 years now, except on the odd occassion when i was forced. SO ya my Grandmother ( who owns a jewellery store) gave me earrings and made me wear them, even tho i was crying soo much(not because of pain, but because personnally my Panj told me not to wear such things)At this very moment i am wearing them because i have no say in the matter. They, my family, say things like no boy is going to want to marry you because u dont dress up. And in my head i was thinking that if a guy likes me because i dress up and where make up then he really does not like me for who i am. It is what is inside that counts and thats the only thing that matters. I have been told by many ppl that wearing make-up, and jewellery, after receiving Amrit is not allowed. And like i said b4, my Panj say that we shouldn't wear such things. SO sadh sangat... What do you think i should do??? Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!