Quite often the issue with dastaar is ears and neck . The fabric crushes down on ears , giving a bad sore in the ear lobes by the evening. And then its about the weight on neck. Regarding ear, how about if we never let the dastaar push down on our ears ? how about a plastic cup that are made in shape and size of the ear lobe . We can keep that cup on each of our ear and then tie dastar over it . The edges of cup(the edges that push on the areas surrounding the ear lobe could be covered with cotton or some other cushioning. Some might ridicule this idea but you would never feel your ears crushed down by the tight dastar. Your ears would be in a state as if you have not wore any dastar at all ! I am surprised no one ever thought about it or maybe they did Is my idea ridiculous ?