DriopsJi
I believe that Hukam is a form of Kismet. We all know the Hukam, if we had the courage to follow it, then we would live the life Guruji intended for us, that is how I define Hukam and Kismet.
Your comment below made me laugh
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=37973 Unfortunately I am not good in talking with women - I donīt know why -it sounds weird i know... I only can talk with them like i talk with other persons - in a deep normal conversation .
Veerji, this is the only way to speak to a woman, free of any subterfuge, hidden intent, pure, and enjoying company, regardless of what sex the other person may be. Much Kudos to you brother!
My wife was not Gursikh when I met her, even now, I am Sikh, she is not, but her manner, attitude to life, to creation is completely Sikh, much much more than me. Yesterday there was much snow, but it was sunday, our day off, I watched my wife start to put her nurses uniform on, and laughed, where are you going, she replied, I am not going anywhere, we are both going, so I spent sunday ferrying my wife about until where the snow was deepest, she sent me home and continued on foot, making sure all those that could not get a visit had catheters changed, injections given etc, it is the sikh thing to do, she laughed at me
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=37973
You will meet someone, your Sikhi shines through brother, but do not worry if she is Gursikh or not, be honest, better she is not, then your journey can be as complete equals, learn together, share together, I think you have a wonderful life ahead of you, you never know, you might even find someone from your parents who fits the bill perfectly, Good Luck