Regarding Sikh Girls

Dear amar

I know your reply will come in hurry The blog is quite old and started in dec 2005 there are plenty of comments on that blog by sikh men and women And many funny discussions like people betting that sikh swaroop will end in 50 years,others saying that sikh girls are worse than Aurangzeb etc.so jus start reading it from Dec 2005

I called your logic poor where you said that just like it dissappeared in women it will dissappear for men.As far as proof is concerned I cannot give it neither i beleive that keeping hair =
sikhi but still if a person consider himself/herself sikh then he / should not
stop his/her partner practising sikh religion..You Very well Know that wearing turaban at present is core part of sikhism all sikh sects,sanatani's taksali's missionaries etc beleive that sikhs should wear turban and keeping uncut hair is very important part of sikhism.
so if a girl is proud to be a sikh and consider herself part of sikhism then she has to accept this image even if it involves sacrificing some of her personal choice.Tell me is it it too much too expect from such type of girls to accept turbaned sikh men.wHere are logics now that quality is more important than physical beauty.

 
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quality?

can you please explain what do you mean by "quality"

can you judge quality of a candy merely looking at its wrapper?

people feel comfortable with like minded people.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-youth/19409-regarding-sikh-girls.html

why wouldn't guys accept that maybe the girls who cut hair but believe in sikh principles want a partner who resonates their beliefs i.e outer persona is not a replica or image of inner self and that inner beliefs matter more than outer appearances.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409

ah

i had no time to read the whole blog

i read the post you mentioned and saw 9 comments. hence my response.


and i hope you did check out the youtube video i posted

and i do read quite fast

Quality means inner qualities.Where am I saying that a sikh girl should accept immdiately sikh man without looking at his inner quaklities.The point is wearing turban is very minor issue and if a girl find all the qualities of potential partner in turbaned sikh man and still still she rejects him then that girl is a fool.

And how could you say that that girl that cut her hair is not like minded with turbaned sikh man.Infact on sikhsangat I heard from some girls that plenty of sikh men without hesistation are engaging to sikh girls who trims.

Again how could you say that men who wear turban beleive that outer appearance is more important.some beleive that outer and inner beleif both are imporatnt while other could that inner mainly.I don't see any conflict.

Read it in 2 days or a week beleive me its a quite interesting blog with plenty of interesting comments.We can complete our discussion any time I am not going anywhere

there is not point to discuss


in fact you sem to be convinced that huge majority of girls discriminate

and i donot believe that all do- its a minority

i still find it tough to believe that just the turban is only reason.

its a lot of other things which the belief in outer bring along in a person that matter.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409

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there is something called probability , dear..

and i wonder what those girls must be facing after marriage....

Not at all Large quantity of sikh girls are very good.This problem mainly exists in NRI's and upper middle to rich class of india.Poor,lower middle class,middle class girls hardly say anything against turbans or beard.For them and their parents finding a good earning sikh boy who keeps their daughter happy is dream come true.I even disscussed this issue in family and asked him what's the situation in my extended relative's in punjab.they said that situation is very good not even a single girl married clean shaven or married outside.

The main problem is dating.There is hardly any chance that a good sikh girl will date and search mariage partner on its own.Practising sikh girls just accept arrange and those who date are westernised so Finding a a practising sikh girl on its own is very difficuilt
in dating culture because high percentage of chance is they will prefer bollywood types not sardars.

Its just your perceptaion there are plenty of cases where one partner practice a religion more strictly than other.I think you will find plenty of cases of sardars with trimmed hair girls.

so why are you so angry that so-called sikh girls want guys to cut their hair too?

this is the double standard i speak of.

you find this FUNNY??? i find it incredibly insulting, and it pretty much makes the entire blog irrelevant in my eyes.

What double standards the sardars which are with cut here girls are not asking girls to cut their hair.if a keshdhari girl is with clean shaven sikh then there is nothing wrong in it as long as the girl choosen him for his qualities

Those comments just display the pain in heart of some sikhmen.sometimes through funny language people write their pain

i'm sorry, but any man who compares an entire group of women with a tyrannical mughal ruler is not being "funny" to hide his pain. he's being cynical and angry and will likely never find a woman who meets his impossible requirements who would want to live with an attitude like that.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409

maybe THAT's the problem with these guys. they HATE women so much they'll blame everything on us.

it's pathetic.

sometime's personal experiances do make people like this.There are plenty of feminists who talk and write trash against men what about that.some of them were not sat all treated by men well so they think that all men are bad.

i see. so because some feminists trash talk men, that makes it ok for SIKH men to hate SIKH women?

sorry, i don't buy into that logic. if these guys are actually sikh, they won't have such an attitude.