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reeks of male chauvanism and female chauvanism too Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-youth/19409-regarding-sikh-girls.html
point is:
diversion to feminism will not cover up or explain the locus standi of "religious" sikh guys crying that "non-religious" sikh/non sikh girls are cutting their hair... Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
beliefs are personal matter.
marriage is union of souls.
so if people donot have common personal beliefs....itis akin to forcing someone into marriage.
ah...
and men are free to choose fair skinned girls..
there are only 20% of them
and THEY have to choose them too
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26-Jan-2008, 14:05 PM
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| | | | | re: Regarding Sikh Girls Belifs are personal choice but here no one is asking cut hair sikh girls to stop cutting their hair they are just discriminating men with turban and beards. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
Also there are 20% fair skinned girls but others should also take cosmetic treatment for this .After all its matter of personal choice.so they should change themselves according to needs of personal choice. | 
26-Jan-2008, 14:29 PM
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and vice versa..
those guys are being too rigid and not considering the sentiments of those girls..
how abt that!!
| Wow when girls discriminate its sentiments when men discriminate then they are bad.
O.K. then giving and taking dowry is also personal choice why people are against it.if an Ias officer can fetch dowry of 10 million rupeesss from any rich girl then its his personal choice.No need to say anything against dowry.AFTER ALL ITS PERSONAL CHOICE WE SHOULD RESPECT THE SENTIMENTS OF THOSE MEN WHICH ARE CAPABALE OF FETCHING SUCH HIGH DOWRY. There are various cosmetic treatments available these days for girls to enhance there beauty like silicon implants,skin color improvement etc.How about if boys ask girls to
do take these treatments after all its a matter of personal choice and sentiments. | 
26-Jan-2008, 14:34 PM
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anyways...now you are stretching it to extremes, Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
parting with money, own or parents is different from cutting your hair or not.
still,
guys have right to keep dreaming of dowry...and girls have right to get them arrested  <Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
do take these treatments after all its a matter of personal choice and sentiments.>> 
i still donot understand you, you mean that guys have right to ask girls to get boob jobs done?
if a girl wants to get it done, heck yeah its her personal choice, as long as she is adult and understands medical implications. | 
26-Jan-2008, 14:43 PM
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26-Jan-2008, 14:47 PM
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| | | | | re: Regarding Sikh Girls Quote:
anyways...now you are stretching it to extremes,
parting with money, own or parents is different from cutting your hair or not.
still,
guys have right to keep dreaming of dowry...and girls have right to get them arrested
| No sir I am not at all stretching it to extreme .I am just supporting personal choice.If a
Man could fetch dowry of 10 million rupees and if rich girl and her parents are ready to give A man 10 million rupees then why is it consider it as wrong or crime.Also from where the question of arrest has come when both parties are readies. Quote: 
i still donot understand you, you mean that guys have right to ask girls to get boob jobs done?
if a girl wants to get it done, heck yeah its her personal choice, as long as she is adult and understands medical implications.
| I don't know why you are not at alll understanding it.I am just saying that if girls want's men to change their appearance for them then men have every right to ask them to change their apperance for them even if it is through cosmetic surgeries. | 
26-Jan-2008, 14:47 PM
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| | | | | re: Regarding Sikh Girls the issue is not whether girls get their hair cut or not
issue is the unrealistic expectation from others to conform to one's perception of the right way. <
Man could fetch dowry of 10 million rupees and if rich girl and her parents are ready to give A man 10 million rupees then why is it consider it as wrong or crime.Also from where the question of arrest has come when both parties are readies.>> Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
then its a gift my dear and not dowry
but if a man asked for money......then even if girl's parents agree, it is a crime...so as the law of the land says. < > Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
if a girl asks a guy to cut hair, he has same right as a girl who has the right to show her middle finger if the guy asks her to get a boob job without her personal choice for it.
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26-Jan-2008, 14:55 PM
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