Is It A Sin For A Sikh To Marry A Non-Sikh?

jaspi · #**151** (**permalink**) 05-05-2008, 03:39 AM

Dear Sir.

You still have to grow to that extent to understand what a wonderful Islam faith is.Not but people like you and the mulla teaches and prectice it every day. Allah or Rab ,or any other mane still mean in english GOD so as Allah .

We are chliderns of that Allah. We have not to decided who is superior or inferior. We all the same . Sikhism believes in all races regardless of the relegion. That is why Golden Temple 's foundation was laid by a Moslim, Not because he was Moslim but human being with good chracter.

Please shun this notion who is superior or inferior. The human being shoud watch his deed which will make him inferior or superior. You are very intellegent to see the past history of kings ,mumma how they practice the relegion arround the world including India for over 1200 years. All the convert what you see to day Pakistan were all hindus but sword make them Moslims.

We live 21 century and must learn how to respect all human being.
Thanks

God bless you more wisdom.

Jaspi

Bmandur · #**152** (**permalink**) 17-05-2008, 01:36 AM

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh,

It does matter if other partner is not a Sikh. We belongs to a Sikh families and we are proud to be a Sikh. If some one want to marry a Sikh girl or a boy, why can not they change their religion. Why we as a Sikh wants to change our self to become one of them.
How many Muslim girls or mens got marry with you in your religion, do they change them self to become you no and they will never.

How many Girls are in Pakistan from Uk london, they are no where to be found. There are artical on this issue but my
Friends, please try to stay in your culture and your own religion. Do not convert your self to be one of them
If some one doesn't like my views, it's there way of thinking but these are my views.

Thank YOU

jaspi · #**153** (**permalink**) 17-05-2008, 08:00 AM

Dear sir. \

What you have written is perfectly alright. By converting into other relegion would not make any a differences because in Sikhism evey one is considered a human being under one umberrala of God. Sikh region will abosrbs you to be a God loving and join you to the Guru Sahis teaching regardless of your relegion to make you realize the God's presence.

But when some one fallen love and decide to marry without convertting themselves to thier relgions, should be not a condition. Each of them can enjoy their faith as what they believe or brought up with.

Basicall we all come from one light.

jaspi

kds1980 · #**154** (**permalink**) 17-05-2008, 09:20 AM

Dear Jaspi

Please do not use Sikhism to justify your own beleif.One of the core principle of Sikhism is not to betray Guru in any condition and you are saying converting to another religion does not make any difference.

As far as marriage is concerned if someone genuinely want's to practice his/her religion then its better to marry with in religion.There are many beleifs of sikhsim which are contradictory to other religion for example how about if your spouse want's to perform head shaving ceremony of children.

rinkoo · #**155** (**permalink**) 17-05-2008, 11:37 AM

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh

I think its not a Sin, To marry somebady, first thing is the Understanding of Both Person and then religion.

Lee · #**156** (**permalink**) 19-05-2008, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by jaspi

Dear every one.

I am born in Sikh family. I can not say that I am proud of be a Sikh but very exceptional person to have a wonderful teaching of the 10 GURU'S which tell all of us that every relegion regardless of any faith but they are all come from one light. That is why after every end of Sikh prayer we wish to all saying: "TERE BHANE SARBAT DA BHALA".

In other words one can mary a girl from the silkh family to have a more easly mixed up with husband or wife and relatives because of principals of upbringing for both are the same.

But look at the millions of Sikh boys and girls marry out side their relegions because of love with belief that all human being come from one light. All the ritual are made by the preachers in Mander,Churchess in different Gurudwaras with thier own intrpetaions of the teaching. But as we all know that Guru Nanak Dev ji constantly taught us that there is no difference among the human being from all relegions which is based on one simple belief that we are one and come from one light so here is no one is bad or good. Person is known bad or good because of one`s deed .

Same we have thousand examples of many moslims joined Sikh faith and were accepted by our Gurus Some of them has thier phiolosphy added and is a part of our Gur Granth Sahib Ji.

It is time to wake up and do not bring the relegion in any one`s life style for maryiong any one and think absolulty a stupid to feel as act of sin. Infect it will be act of true Sikh. There are millions of people non Sikh have loind the Sikh faith like sindhies , Moslems and others from different part of the world.

So after all discussions are based on ignorance and fnatic beliefs. There is no room for that in Sikhism which most humble and full of NIMRATA.
"Niven so Gaura Hoie"

Jaspi

Very well put Jaspi Ji.

jaspi · #**157** (**permalink**) 19-05-2008, 06:39 PM

Thanks for appreciation. It is a great gesture from my own kinds.
In this completely divided and confused world having great difficulties to make thier mind to which way to go while watching solution sitting right in front thier what to do .

First step to have clear vision is to get rid of EGO which is a crual self distructive attitude full of ignorances.

We have a beautiful and wonderfull world to enjoy and then go away and leave behind our contrnbution of good deeds for those who are not even previlaged of many needs for daily life.Look at the big preachers living in big tombs with most luxurious life styles and preachings which will never fill the belly of hungry masses around the world.

Jesus Christ came once to dismental the same highly built system to control all the wealth and most profitable organizations to have a big tombs to live . This was the situation then and this the situations now.

Every door of love and brotherhood will emerge when EGO all of us dissapear.How?? Just remeber the God and you are going to die one day.

Jaspi

BKaur · #**158** (**permalink**) 19-05-2008, 11:20 PM

Ahmed Ji and others

read your last line. Others read your own post
Only God is above than any one.
Do not Brain wash Sikh girls or boys. Sikh religion is the best. It does depends on your society, your home, your way of living.
I am proud to be a Sikh and I will never see any one get marry to any other religion.
This is just as excuse we are in Love. Love is blind
We should love our Culture and our self not others.
Our Guru's has given everything to give us a name and
others are talking this is 21 centry.
How many of you have given a life for others it was only a only our Guru's who has secrify their everything just for us to breath not the way you are talking.
If you feel so bad being a Sikh than what are you doing here on this website.
Nimrta,
but we have given MIRI & PIRI
God is above than any one not Muslims

pk70 · #**159** (**permalink**) 20-05-2008, 06:45 AM

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Originally Posted by BKaur

Ahmed Ji and others

read your last line. Others read your own post
Only God is above than any one.
Do not Brain wash Sikh girls or boys. Sikh religion is the best. It does depends on your society, your home, your way of living.
I am proud to be a Sikh and I will never see any one get marry to any other religion.
This is just as excuse we are in Love. Love is blind
We should love our Culture and our self not others.
Our Guru's has given everything to give us a name and
others are talking this is 21 centry.
How many of you have given a life for others it was only a only our Guru's who has secrify their everything just for us to breath not the way you are talking.
If you feel so bad being a Sikh than what are you doing here on this website.
Nimrta,
but we have given MIRI & PIRI
God is above than any one not Muslims

bkaur ji
I love and applaud your stand though I may not agree with all your statements.
A few questions to clear my mind as I know your mind is crystal clear
" What will you do if you happen to see a Sikh marrying a non Sikh? you wrote ...I cannot see......)
"Why to love only ourselves and our culture? Cant we love other cultures as well and remain indifferent or not to accept their influence?
" If some one is not feeling good being Sikh, may be he/she get good advice on this site, it is not bad, what do you think? just asking very friendly way as a lover of Sikhism.

Singh · #**160** (**permalink**) 20-05-2008, 08:19 AM

If a Sikh does not marry another Sikh then that Sikh is making his/her life even more difficult. Sikhism is a way of life that distinguishes its beliefs from other religions. Stop thinking about yourselves here for a minute and take you surrounding into consideration. Parents, friends, siblings, and children will be affected by marrying out of Sikhism. Majority of the religions believe in God, but Sri Guru Granth Sahib is our guide to God. THERE ARE MANY WAYS TO GOD BUT A Sikh NEVER LEAVES THE GURU FOR ANOTHER WAY TO GOD NOR DOES A Sikh TAKE ANOTHER OFF THE PATH OF SIKISM. Remember the Gurus came down to correct other religions from believing in useless things. Sikhism above all, my Gurus word above all, and my head is for the Guru. Listen to the Guru walk on the Sri Guru Granth Sahib path and get rid of you karma.

To some this might be insulting, but to a TrueSikh its being pure.