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03-Jan-2011, 11:32 AM
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| | | | | Re: Ignorant Person Giving Sikhi a Bad Name. Please Comment! Quote:
Originally Posted by spnadmin That is exactly what I wanted to say ... After 18 years of nothing but open and veiled threats.. threats followed up with abuse...or promises of being abused...when you are even told you can be threatened by Waheguru ji .. what happens to a person's soul? | If she sticks to her path nothing happens to her soul. I think she has very strong soul to survive and bounce back in life.
True Sikhi should have helped and not hinder her internal discovery of God. For the time being it did not work and she has accepted an external God with her reduced internal strength. Perhaps it will provide her with a recpite of a peaceful moment and do better in life for herself and her family and daughter.
Life is a complex puzzle. Who knows what tomorrow brings! May be in a few years her daughter will rebel against Christianity and embrace true Sikhi.
Sat Sri Akal.
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03-Jan-2011, 16:07 PM
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| | | | | Re: Ignorant Person Giving Sikhi a Bad Name. Please Comment! Actually after watching the video thoroughly I think she maybe actually lying. Why?
She says her parents abused her because she was not born a boy? Yet then she says she has two brothers and two sisters? That makes no sense to me. Even the most sexist of Sikh families who want boys would be happy with two boys? | | The following members appreciate Randip Singh Ji for the above message. | | 
04-Jan-2011, 00:28 AM
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| | | | | Re: Ignorant Person Giving Sikhi a Bad Name. Please Comment! I most humbly submit that we lock this thread as nothing more good is going to be coming out from what I have seen. The truths are only known to the girl and her family and the rest of us are kind of playing God based on a Youtube video. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-sikhi-sikhism/33794-ignorant-person-giving-sikhi-bad-name.htmlReference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=33794
Let us respect the family and the girl's privacy unless they seek our advice or counsel.
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24-May-2012, 15:55 PM
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| | | | | | | Re: Ignorant Person Giving Sikhi a Bad Name. Please Comment! some of the things that she has said are not true where as some parts probably are. She was shown two guys to which she agreed to marry them. It wasn't forced at all but at the same time she was messing around with a married muslim guy. Also yeah her family did believe in some spirit stuff. There's allways two sides to a story at the moment she is making it all one sided. She also claims her family are looking for her up until this day, that is not true at all. They know where she lives but don't have or want anything to do with her. They have there own life and she has hers. | | The following member appreciates Spiritual Ji for the above message. | | 
24-May-2012, 17:11 PM
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| | | | | Re: Ignorant Person Giving Sikhi a Bad Name. Please Comment! oh man.. not sure where to start with this one.. I think we all agree that all mumbo jumbo she is saying is nothing to do with Sikhism. Her body language tells me that she is very confused and needs something to blame. I think her family is to blame here (her mother more than the father). I actually feel sorry for her. She clearly has been messed around with, to take a such step to tell others about her confused state. This is just the beggining of her confusion, she will be even more confused in years to come | 
24-May-2012, 18:13 PM
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| | | | | Re: Ignorant Person Giving Sikhi a Bad Name. Please Comment! Ha Ha! This video make me laugh! What about all these pedophile priests who abuse little kids in their "church"? This girl is so ignoroant and dumb - in every "religion" there are black sheeps , NO! in the WHOLEhuman race there are many BLACK SHEEPS. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=33794Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=33794
Maybe she is telling the truth maybe not? We don´t know... This is just a problem with her "familiy", this is no religious problem or whatever.
But like some wise person said :
Ignorance is a part of the human being.
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24-May-2012, 18:19 PM
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| | | | | Re: Ignorant Person Giving Sikhi a Bad Name. Please Comment! Quote:
Originally Posted by BaljinderS oh man.. not sure where to start with this one.. I think we all agree that all mumbo jumbo she is saying is nothing to do with Sikhism. Her body language tells me that she is very confused and needs something to blame. I think her family is to blame here (her mother more than the father). I actually feel sorry for her. She clearly has been messed around with, to take a such step to tell others about her confused state. This is just the beggining of her confusion, she will be even more confused in years to come  | Why her mother more than her father? | 
24-May-2012, 19:50 PM
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Originally Posted by BaljinderS ... I think her family is to blame here (her mother more than the father). | You really need to back this up with some solid rationale because there is no information in that clip to suggest her mother is more to blame than her father.
Please explain where you get that idea from. | | The following member appreciates Ishna Ji for the above message. | | 
24-May-2012, 21:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Ishna You really need to back this up with some solid rationale because there is no information in that clip to suggest her mother is more to blame than her father.
Please explain where you get that idea from.  | Good question. Okay, I will try to explain
Mother is a teacher to a child even before the child is born and she is a teacher to her child for most of their lives. A child always looks up to their mother and picks her behaviour, her habits etc The law is always on the mothers side if parents are separated etc..
In this case, if the mother had actually spent the time and shown her the true values of Sikhi then it would have never come to this. I am not saying a father doesn't have any role in this, he does indeed. A mother has very powerful influence over her children, I think most philosophers agree on this fact.
Hopefully this makes sense , as I am no philsopher by long shot  Hope you get I am trying to say..
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