05-Sep-2008, 03:55 AM
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Hello to All Friends,
Pls. do not think that I am just trying to pollute the env. but this is real question to me.
Is Oral Sex allowed in sikhism.. If I want to do this with my life partner... Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-sikhi-sikhism/22952-oral-sex-with-partner.htmlReference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22952
Even I am not feeling good to asking this question but since the last year I have been
attracting about this ..
Same time I also read gurbani and want to continue in gursikhi path ....
is there any confilct if want to O S with my partner ..
Please give your suggestion ..
Regards,
Manjeet Singh * 
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05-Sep-2008, 04:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Manjeet Singh1977  Hello to All Friends,
Pls. do not think that I am just trying to pollute the env. but this is real question to me.
Is Oral Sex allowed in sikhism.. If I want to do this with my life partner...
Even I am not feeling good to asking this question but since the last year I have been
attracting about this ..
Same time I also read gurbani and want to continue in gursikhi path ....
is there any confilct if want to O S with my partner ..
Please give your suggestion ..
Regards,
Manjeet Singh | Veer ji the way you ask, it sounds like you take Sikhism to be another one of the religions that drill... do this .. dont do that.. into their followers!
Sikhism is NOT like that! It is NOT a list of Do's and Don'ts!
I hope that clears up any questions.  If you need me to go into detail then I'll be more then happy to! 
BTW that goes for masturbation, anal sex, this sex, that sex and more sex. 
and have fun!  |
05-Sep-2008, 08:18 AM
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Thanks Bhagat for your reply, Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22952
I have been struggling a lot internally on this decision, May be my conscious is not allowing me for this but mentally getting attracted again and again.
Let's wait for reply from other brothers ... |
05-Sep-2008, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Manjeet Singh1977 Thanks Bhagat for your reply,
I have been struggling a lot internally on this decision, May be my conscious is not allowing me for this but mentally getting attracted again and again.
Let's wait for reply from other brothers ... | hmm ok. One question: why isn't your conscious allowing it? |
05-Sep-2008, 12:35 PM
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Ones "Consciousness" is the Voice of REASON.....Voice of the "Vast"...the Purakh residing within.
This World is nothing but a cloud of smoke...smokescreen..illusion....and so are its "pleasures"... Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22952
Just like we go to see a "Stage Play"..a DRAMA...a MOVIE.... we know its NOT REAL...it wont LAST.... it wont stay with US....but we still go !!!...for what ?? the Momentary PLEASURE..the THRILL....
Theres your answer Manjeet Singh Ji... Kaam/Sex is a momentary pleasure...any wchich way you do it.... the end result is the SAME.
Our GURUS are so WISE..they left these mundane questions....by the wayside..where they belong....and wrote the 1429 Pages of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji..to discuss the more IMPORTANT THINGS....so look not there if you want YES/NO answers....
Let me give an easy example....... the Telephone DIRECTORY will have imporetnat info such as tel numbers/addresses.....BUT what you want to say on the phone..is up to you...You will NOT find what to tell your girlfriend..or what to tell your boss...etc etc in the Phone Directory !! Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22952
Agree with Bhagat Singh Ji...
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05-Sep-2008, 20:50 PM
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Gyiani ji
Thanks for a good answer that answers every question we have about lifestyles and Sikhi. Focus on the Guru and so many questions will be cleared up. |
06-Sep-2008, 03:10 AM
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Thanks Gyani Jarnail Singh ji for your reply.
I do agree that Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji is not for this type of questions and Dos and Don'ts .. This is clear to me ... Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22952
But still I did not hear voice that do we concider this Sin .. or not ... ?
Regards,
Manjeet Singh |
06-Sep-2008, 03:43 AM
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Manjeet ji Can you define Sin for me? |
06-Sep-2008, 04:17 AM
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Veer -
I am "moormat" .. .simply whatever is *kurahat* and we have been told not to do is a *sin* for me .. for example .. cut the kesh ...kutha ... and you know all ... Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22952
Anything which would take you away from the path of *Guru* is a sin for me ..
this is the reason, we have not been told to go to *Jangals* and go for smadhi .. NO .. we have to be in *Grasth* and need to devote time for *Guru* while serving all our responsibilities ... Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22952
Guru encourge us (husbend/wife) to come togather on the way of Gursikhi .. | 
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