Dear Aman:
I cam acros this article 2 days ago and wrote the following email to Mr. Sanghvi. However his email
vir@mid-day.com keeps bouncing..
I would also appreciate, if the learned members would like to add any points .. to the email..
Do you have by any chance his hindustan times email?
Dear Vir:
Read your article in Mid day online. Always used
to admire you as a journalist of repute, so was a
bit hard digesting the fact that you were the
author of the article published in the mId Day. A
closer look however cleared the apprehension.
I am quite disappointed..
You sum up your article by writing: "All truth
has the power to offend. Take away the offence
and you end up suppressing the truth."
What truth may I say is represented by a Joke
announcing a dim witted sardar?? You seem to be
making a truth out of all Sardarji jokes and just
seem to justify the image characterisation by a
single stroke of your pen.
Your article at the best is a surface skimming
article which has not delved deeped into the
causes of why Sikhs all of a sudden are aware of
the way media has been handling their image.
Wasn't Journalism all about exploring all facets
of a situation?
Everybody enjoys a good joke and I couldnt agree
with you more, but it is hard to enjoy such
situations, when all the other person can think
of is to make fun of your appearance which is
deeply rooted to your religion.
You have not pondered upon the effect such jokes,
or stereotyped image characterisation that
Bollyowood or a section of the Indian media has
embarked upon.
Young
Sikh kids have started loosing confidence
in the way they lok, just because they stand to
be singled out. They find the easier way out of
doing away with this very image. It makes them
seem normal, as people now dont make fun of their
appearance. Kids of other religion will also be
affetcted by these jokes as more or less
impressions created by such jokes will have an
effect on the way they look at other communities.
It is interesting to note that while the Male
sikhs are made the brunt of the jokes, the female
Sikh has been stereotyped as a sexy, beautiful
female who can fall for anyone but an ugly (media
perception) sardar.
You talked about Khushwant Singh and his Santa
Banta jokes. There is a difference when one tells
a Santa Banta joke and when one tells a Sardarji
jokes. Santa and Banta are two characters and
such characters can exist in every community,
religion or region. However when we talk about a
Sardarji joke, we are creating a stereotype image
of Sardarji.
Yes, Vir, we all have a right to freedom of
expression, but there was an old story taught to
us as a part of our Moral Science subject that
our freedom ends where the other person's nose
starts. I am not the one to object to valid
criticism, be it because of female infanticide
practice (even though it is restricted in
Sikhism), or dowry prevalent among
sikhs/punjabis, but to have the cheapest humour
flung on the whole community cannot amount to
freedom of expression in any court of law.
It is interesting to note, that almost all of
internet hunour and blonde jokes are ripped to
fit in sardarjis. I wonder why we cant enjoy such
jokes in their originality and always feel the
need to remove the character and place a sardarji
in place.
Such jokes, started with the famous 12 O clock
joke. Could you please expound on the truth
behind this joke in Mid day, and mention how
women of a certain community were saved by the
dim witted sardarjis of yore. How many
journalists of today have the courage to tell the
truth and how many people can digest it?
Perhaps you can explain how the image of the
dirty *** was created prior to the Holocaust. Do
we want to create such an image of a Sardar who
has been at the forefront in patriotic activities
throughout.
I am sure no one hates sardars, but I fail to
understand, why they have the intense desire to
make stupid jokes. A student of psychology may
perhaps say that it is because of an inferiority
complex of certain people. I dont know... it is
an open question.
Perhaps you could open such a discussion on TV
and we can all contribute.
How many movies have you seen, with the central
character - a hero being a sardarji and how many
can you count with the side kick being a
dimwitted , saradrji, who cannot even win the
Love of a decent looking gal.
Can you wonder why, it is always people of other
communities or Clean Shaven sardars that are
taken as heros along with implied
Sikh girls.
Can you also answer why there are no jokes
concerning the Hindus/Muslims/Christians and
potraying them as
cowards, jokers, idiots or ugly?
Can we expect you to take a stand and use your
pen to further the cause of
Sikh image in the
media?
I am sure if you can help the sikhs frame a
better image and present it to our kids, the
community will have no objection to telling jokes
about ourselves and laughing at their antics. We
can all have a jolly good time.
Can I request you to please research a topic more
and explore the human and community facets before
brandishing a pen and making statements like the
one quoted in the begining of this email which
seem to be out of order with the chosen topic.
Expecting a more detailed article and a reply to
this mail.
Sincerely.