I know that it is hard to do, but we could try to refrain from substituting our judgment for that of the True Guru - The True Guru who will also be the true supporter and true friend of the 4 children who were left fatherless. ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਹਥਿ ਨਿਬੇੜੁ ਝਗੜੁ ਚੁਕਾਇਆ ॥
sathigur hathh nibaerr jhagarr chukaaeiaa || The
judgment is in the Hands of the True Guru, who puts an end to the argument.
ਪਵੜੀ ॥
pavarree ||
Pauree:
ਕਾਇਆ ਹੰਸਿ ਸੰਜੋਗੁ ਮੇਲਿ ਮਿਲਾਇਆ ॥
kaaeiaa hans sanjog mael milaaeiaa ||
Destiny has brought together and united the body and the soul-swan.
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ਤਿਨ ਹੀ ਕੀਆ ਵਿਜੋਗੁ ਜਿਨਿ ਉਪਾਇਆ ॥
thin hee keeaa vijog jin oupaaeiaa ||
He who created them, also separates them.
ਮੂਰਖੁ ਭੋਗੇ ਭੋਗੁ ਦੁਖ ਸਬਾਇਆ ॥
moorakh bhogae bhog dhukh sabaaeiaa ||
The fools enjoy their pleasures; they must also endure all their pains.
ਸੁਖਹੁ ਉਠੇ ਰੋਗ ਪਾਪ ਕਮਾਇਆ ॥
sukhahu outhae rog paap kamaaeiaa ||
From pleasures, arise diseases and the commission of sins.
ਹਰਖਹੁ ਸੋਗੁ ਵਿਜੋਗੁ ਉਪਾਇ ਖਪਾਇਆ ॥
harakhahu sog vijog oupaae khapaaeiaa ||
From sinful pleasures come sorrow, separation, birth and death.
ਮੂਰਖ ਗਣਤ ਗਣਾਇ ਝਗੜਾ ਪਾਇਆ ॥
moorakh ganath ganaae jhagarraa paaeiaa ||
The fools try to account for their misdeeds, and argue uselessly.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਹਥਿ ਨਿਬੇੜੁ ਝਗੜੁ ਚੁਕਾਇਆ ॥
sathigur hathh nibaerr jhagarr chukaaeiaa ||
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The
judgment is in the Hands of the True Guru, who puts an end to the argument.
ਕਰਤਾ ਕਰੇ ਸੁ ਹੋਗੁ ਨ ਚਲੈ ਚਲਾਇਆ ॥੪॥
karathaa karae s hog n chalai chalaaeiaa ||4||
Whatever the Creator does, comes to pass. It cannot be changed by anyone's efforts. ||4||
Ang 139