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27-Jun-2012, 22:59 PM
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Originally Posted by chazSingh  I married someone who was a 'dreamer', who spent her childhood dreaming about what 'things should be like' in the future, and when things didnt match her dreams she kicked, screamed, shouted and much much more. Point is, a destructive relationship is one where you spend most your time looking at and pointing out the negatives of your partner. whereas A heavenly relationship blossoms when one judges oneself first. just my take on things and from personal experience  | Omg are you my ex-husband disguised as a singh?!  swordfight Do share your immediate thoughts or reactions on this issue? We value your views! Login Now! or Sign Up Today! to share your views with us.. Gurfateh! |
27-Jun-2012, 23:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Ruqa Omg are you my ex-husband disguised as a singh?! swordfight | ... Silence ... | | The following members appreciate chazSingh Ji for the above message. | |
28-Jun-2012, 04:28 AM
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Originally Posted by chazSingh from personal experience...
it doesnt matter how attractive a person is physically, your attraction to the other person (physically and mentally) soon dissapears if your own values of love, compassion, forgiveness, honesty and integrity are not held or thought of highly by your partner.
Other than that...a woman that cooks a killer paneer dish! | It's very good that you value in this manner.
I have to agree but can't say that I've always been this way.
Although, my wife, even though she is a smacking stunner but I only see her for her inner values now.
Then again, if she wasn't a stunner, then I honestly don't think that we would have been married. What I'm trying to say here is that, the physical attraction is kind of required, definitely at first. As, when you bypass this then you recognize the inner beauty. -
-Well, maybe it's just me and the way I was!!! But, I know I never gave in or went after too easily in my younger days. The female had to be nice and attractive before I got any closer, or otherwise I simply had NO feeling. It could have just been my pride, as I knew that I had interest and appeal OR it was just a kind of misleading illusion.
It is funny in a way, because none of those things ever matter now that I am much wiser.
As young kids we think that all adults are perfect and wise, then as we grow we start to realise the truth. In a similar way, we probably think and feel that all relationships are about wining & dining, being physical and romance. But then we wisen up and realise there is much more to each other than all that.
The only strong survivor and bond of any relationship, be it your spouse, brother or mother is simply the TRUTH.  | | The following members appreciate Luckysingh Ji for the above message. | |
28-Jun-2012, 17:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Luckysingh It's very good that you value in this manner.
I have to agree but can't say that I've always been this way.
Although, my wife, even though she is a smacking stunner but I only see her for her inner values now.
Then again, if she wasn't a stunner, then I honestly don't think that we would have been married. What I'm trying to say here is that, the physical attraction is kind of required, definitely at first. As, when you bypass this then you recognize the inner beauty. -
-Well, maybe it's just me and the way I was!!! But, I know I never gave in or went after too easily in my younger days. The female had to be nice and attractive before I got any closer, or otherwise I simply had NO feeling. It could have just been my pride, as I knew that I had interest and appeal OR it was just a kind of misleading illusion.
It is funny in a way, because none of those things ever matter now that I am much wiser.
As young kids we think that all adults are perfect and wise, then as we grow we start to realise the truth. In a similar way, we probably think and feel that all relationships are about wining & dining, being physical and romance. But then we wisen up and realise there is much more to each other than all that.
The only strong survivor and bond of any relationship, be it your spouse, brother or mother is simply the TRUTH. | Satnaam Lucky Ji,
very true, i think like a lot of people, attraction physically also meant a lot to me. My current wife i found and stil find attractive physically, and this played a strong part in the initial attraction towards her.
Personalities in the end can make or break a relationship.
Marriage is almost like a personality cleansing process...your own negative aspects of your persoanlity will come to the surface.
If you both have strong Ego's then both parties never give in and don't try to better their OWN behaviour....and a divorce beckons. people look out and comment about the others bad habbits, behaviour, personality, but their Ego prevents them from looking at their own bad habbits, behaviour and personality aspects.
in the end you learn that you should only judge yourself, and by doing so, maybe your own daily actions will then benefit your partners behaviour and life.
was it michael jackson that sang "if you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make a change" song was man in the mirror.
Anyway, thats enough about relationships for one day .... or shall i catch some jeremy kyle (i;m working from home ) | | The following members appreciate chazSingh Ji for the above message. | |
29-Jun-2012, 18:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Luckysingh The female had to be nice and attractive before I got any closer | I'll make you laugh Lucky ji... I'm thinking you took that from a script for a wildlife doco on the Animal Planet... hehehe   made you laugh didn't i?! |
04-Apr-2013, 20:17 PM
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Most girls don't get that a lot of the female empowering stuff is enslaving them. I just watch for a singhini, she have to thick hip or we cuz yea.. but usually a powerful lady does which gets into female social dynamics. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/relationships/27204-what-do-sikh-men-look-women.htmlReference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=27204
Most girls are are kami things posting about love, breaking faith but will run off with with first thing that's bigger. The main thing to look for in in woman, is can she hold her composure and be or act like something greater than her body parts around you.
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Originally Posted by GSingh1984 Most girls don't get that a lot of the female empowering stuff is enslaving them. I just watch for a singhini, she have to thick hip or we cuz yea.. but usually a powerful lady does which gets into female social dynamics.
Most girls are are kami things posting about love, breaking faith but will run off with with first thing that's bigger. The main thing to look for in in woman, is can she hold her composure and be or act like something greater than her body parts around you.
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04-Apr-2013, 23:08 PM
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