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13-Jun-2012, 18:22 PM
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lets just say all religions are now open to me!
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14-Jun-2012, 12:34 PM
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Want and need are synonyms as per dictionary.com However, there may be a hairline difference between want and need. Taking a cue from the earlier posts …
Sex is a ‘need’ when wanted and ‘want’ when needed and in both cases it is so strong that rigid classification may not be possible as this want, that we need so often that for the want of which we feel that it is a need though in reality it may only be an urge or a craving that may fall in between need and want or may not be directly related to these.
Satisfied with my need today, I want more of it tomorrow and satisfied with this want tomorrow, I need the same the next day. Each day it is different.
Sex is gift of nature and I go by nature without thinking of want or need as Lucky ji stated above it just happens. Sikhi permits the fulfillment of this demand and as sex has no expiry date we all continue this activity till we live. However, Moderation is the key even though I would like to taste them all.
I have not reached the state where I find sex more than a physical pleasure. May be with time ....
Sex and Procreation ਇਸਤ੍ਰੀ ਪੁਰਖੈ ਜਾਂ ਨਿਸਿ ਮੇਲਾ ਓਥੈ ਮੰਧੁ ਕਮਾਹੀ Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/questions-and-answers/38612-sexual-intercourse-need-or-a-want.htmlReference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=38612
But when men and women meet in the night, they come together in the flesh. ਮਾਸਹੁ ਨਿੰਮੇ ਮਾਸਹੁ ਜੰਮੇ ਹਮ ਮਾਸੈ ਕੇ ਭਾਂਡੇ
In the flesh we are conceived, and in the flesh we are born; we are vessels of flesh
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14-Jun-2012, 12:48 PM
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A couple of guys have said- Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=38612
'You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you just might find, you get what you need.' | | The following members appreciate Luckysingh Ji for the above message. | |
14-Jun-2012, 15:03 PM
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15-Jun-2012, 00:33 AM
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| | | | | Re: Sexual Intercourse, Need or a Want?
Need = Oxygen
Want = Air conditioning Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=38612
Need = Water
Want = Nimbu Pani
That does make sense 
All in all we have Kaam in us all the time, which will confuse a need to be a want! | | The following members appreciate Kanwaljit Singh Ji for the above message. | |
15-Jun-2012, 01:13 AM
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In short:
Sexual intercourse is:
1. necessary for the survival of the species.
2. unnecessary (but highly desirable) for any given individual.
Of course, technology has made it possible to make babies in other ways.   Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=38612
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15-Jun-2012, 02:05 AM
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I'm going to drive south down to Beverly Hills this weekend and I will stop by the Playboy mansion for this weekends party.
I will ask Mr Heffner this question of need or want, as I think he would be able to give me the best confirmed and true answer!!!!!!!!cheerleader | | The following members appreciate Luckysingh Ji for the above message. | |
25-Jun-2012, 06:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Randip Singh  Look Sikhism talks about Kaam, which is an un-natural obsession with sex. It's about self gratification.
Sex per se is not unnatural and Sikhism does not condemn it as per my understanding. | Bhagat Kabir Ji writes that BIND RAKHIYEAH..meaning ABSTINENCE/ABSENCE of sex/Virginity/Brahmchareeism/Virtual Marriage (like the Nuns do in Christianity)..ALL dont necessarily lead to HIM/Mukt /enlightened.......if this did that..then the Eunuchs, the sex-less men and women born without sex organs..etc etc would be automatically saved/mukt enlightened...Enlightenment muktee etc has to be EARNED via ACTIONS...
But just as in the Meat-Daal controversy people misinterpret this tuk. Its NOT a condemnation of sex neither is it a Carte Blanche free for all encouragemnet to sex for all...Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji advocates MODERATION and MODERATION and MORE MODERATION.period. | | The following member appreciates Gyani Jarnail Singh Ji for the above message. | |
25-Jun-2012, 07:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Gyani Jarnail Singh Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji advocates MODERATION and MODERATION and MORE MODERATION.period. | Moderation in all things, including moderation. icecreamkudi | | The following members appreciate Inderjeet Kaur Ji for the above message. | | 
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