Dating Situations... arggghhhh!! Help!!!!

harshsingh · #28 (**permalink**) 28-Dec-2011, 05:13 AM

Kamala (13800038), i respectively disagree. Although dating can be developed and based around lust it is not always lust. From what i have heard and seen there is nothing in Gurbani that says one is not allowed to show interest in another and fall in love. Bani only tells us to avoid lust, again from what i have seen or heard. Dating is an act of lust when you go about it in manmukh ways, only dating for satisfactions of lust, no need to mention

. But when you are genuinely interested in someone for who they are and feel that you could happily marry them then where is the lust in that??

Ambarsaria · #29 (**permalink**) 28-Dec-2011, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by harshsingh

Kamala (13800038), i respectively disagree. Although dating can be developed and based around lust it is not always lust. From what i have heard and seen there is nothing in Gurbani that says one is not allowed to show interest in another and fall in love. Bani only tells us to avoid lust, again from what i have seen or heard. Dating is an act of lust when you go about it in manmukh ways, only dating for satisfactions of lust, no need to mention

. But when you are genuinely interested in someone for who they are and feel that you could happily marry them then where is the lust in that??

One very smart young man you are veer. All the best.

Sat Sri Akal.

Kamala · #30 (**permalink**) 28-Dec-2011, 19:01 PM

Well if dating wasn't bad you would see our Guru dating as well but he didn't and he got married the right way. But I understand and most of you people are influenced by Christian traditions ect.. I mean if the british never came to India dating wouldn't exist their either, if you get what I mean. I just am saying this because when you start dating and get a relationship feelings can get hurt and you can be scarred and think everyone is like that (I've seen it with my friends) but yeah, just to be safe..

harry haller · #31 (**permalink**) 28-Dec-2011, 21:22 PM

I can just about stomach seeing your posts on every thread, even though the content bores and depresses me, but how can you be a Sikh if you believe in the myriad of Hindu gods that you mention?

Ambarsaria · #32 (**permalink**) 28-Dec-2011, 21:34 PM

Veer Harry Haller ji "yanking the chain" it is called. Use of some free time to play with people at spn with no honest or respectful attachment to Sikhism. The lip service is just a shield.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/questions-and-answers/37234-dating-situations-arggghhhh-help.html
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=37234

I decided not to respond further to such posts but it sure is ever so tempting. Smart lady that way.

Sat Sri Akal.

Kamala · #33 (**permalink**) 28-Dec-2011, 22:55 PM

Believing they existed and beleiving IN them are two different things, I KNOW they EXISTED since our guru ji said SO, but I do not beleive they are GOD (the one true being/creator of everything). I beleive they have their own tasks and god made them for that. Like Yamraj for death Shivji for destroying ect.

harry haller · #34 (**permalink**) 29-Dec-2011, 00:03 AM

In the spirit of Sikhi, I will always be happy to interact with posts that I can learn something from, to date, I cannot find anything other than the standard Hindu myths that have penetrated Sikhi thanks to people like you, better I follow Ambarsariaji's line and respond only to posts that contain some intelligence, I won't hold my breath.........

Kamala · #35 (**permalink**) 30-Dec-2011, 00:01 AM

Well he said so, want to see the page in the dasam granth where he calls Kali Devi his mother?

Ambarsaria · #36 (**permalink**) 30-Dec-2011, 02:01 AM

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Well he said so, want to see the page in the dasam granth where he calls Kali Devi his mother?

Kamala ji perhaps a suggestion for you. This and many other threads where you have commented upon are not about "Dasam Granth". There is a whole section of SPN devoted to "Dasam Granth" in the following,

http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/dasam-granth/

You may want to inject your wisdom, literal word interpretations, interpolations to Hinduism, deities-myths-mythology in there or even start your own thread(s).

Please try to keep things in context. animatedkhanda1
Sat Sri Akal.