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09-Dec-2011, 11:11 AM
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harshsingh ji,
i thought i would provide a female perspective. i dont know about men but emotional attachment is a big thing, if it doesn't work out, it can hurt a LOT. Personally I think an intellectual stance is very important when it comes to relationships, its important to know what you are looking for, and the lifestyle you plan to have. It's easy to become all gaga in love, that parts fun but if long-term that person doesn't fit into your view of your life, then it can become a very trying situation. Contrary to popular belief, I think a person can walk into love maturely, "falling into love" is a conscious choice. You decide when, how and who you want to share your heart with. Things like culture, family, religious background and practice are very important things to consider. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/questions-and-answers/37234-dating-situations-arggghhhh-help.html
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23-Dec-2011, 20:09 PM
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Dating is against the rules in Sikhism. Your supposed to treat everyone as a sister or aunt/brother or uncle. I was told this by my local Panth in my Gurdwara. | | The following members appreciate Kamala Ji for the above message. | |
23-Dec-2011, 23:17 PM
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Originally Posted by 13800038  Dating is against the rules in Sikhism. Your supposed to treat everyone as a sister or aunt/brother or uncle. I was told this by my local Panth in my Gurdwara. | Sorry to diagree 13800038 ji with perhaps your advisor. Showing interest in a future life partner for an eligible bachelor towards an eligible bachelorette is not against Sikhism. As otherwise there can only be arranged marriages!
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As otherwise there can only be arranged marriages!
| Veer Ji There are only arranged marriages as even when we fall in love, it has been arranged. | | The following members appreciate Scarlet Pimpernel Ji for the above message. | |
24-Dec-2011, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Scarlet Pimpernel Veer Ji There are only arranged marriages as even when we fall in love, it has been arranged. | Scarlet Pimpernel Veer ji you wonderfully showed me the way here. Impossible to disapprove your logic. I was too narrow minded. I agree it can be just random looking as though pre-destined or arranged, sign of made for each other.
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27-Dec-2011, 18:33 PM
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Sorry to diagree 13800038 ji with perhaps your advisor. Showing interest in a future life partner for an eligible bachelor towards an eligible bachelorette is not against Sikhism. As otherwise there can only be arranged marriages!
| Thats a sign of lust, which tarnishes the image of Sikhs as in showing they are fools who go out looking for future husbands/wifes in a shameless way. Now if you were a vichola, that would be different. Love grows once you get married, not the other way around. Although it works your way to, but it shows you have no shame or very less. (: |
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Nothing tarnishes the image of Sikhs more than misinformation. For the record, we are all fools, some of us are just more foolish than others. This sort of Taliban Sikhi is not very constructive, neither to dialogue nor to personal development. I would drop your advisor and seek the truth out yourself. | | The following members appreciate harry haller Ji for the above message. | |
27-Dec-2011, 19:47 PM
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Oh, I'm sorry for stateing the FACTS. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean it's false (: | | The following member appreciates Kamala Ji for the above message. | |
27-Dec-2011, 20:31 PM
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Originally Posted by 13800038 Thats a sign of lust, which tarnishes the image of Sikhs as in showing they are fools who go out looking for future husbands/wifes in a shameless way. Now if you were a vichola, that would be different. Love grows once you get married, not the other way around. Although it works your way to, but it shows you have no shame or very less. (: | Sure, lets look at your facts,
Dating is a sign of lust and is something fools do in a shameless way
Love grows once you are married, not the other way around
If you do not follow this, then you are shameless
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