URGENT PLZZ HELP: KAAM LUST BODY MASSAGE SPA ISSUE

the massage parlours ( happy ending type ) are all illegal . nowadays in mumbai ( i am from mumbai myself ) the police raid massage parlours in some cases . if you are caught half naked with some half naked girl in a massage parlour when the police raid it you could be in serious trouble . you could be booked under the human trafficking act which entails several years in jail if convicted . a HAL scientist who was head of the project of making TEJAS light combat aircraft for india was caught taking massage from a girl in a massage parlour in bangalore when the police raided it . today he has been booked under the human trafficking act and his career is in ruins as he has been removed from the project and the TEJAS project has been harmed too .

I don't understand the "female touch" part . I am blind when it comes to females anyways, as I am a homosexual. So technically, I am in bigger problem (when it comes to relationships) than you, my friend !

Other things I can definitely relate, esp failing for so long in your career.
I am 25 and a half, and I just started my career less than 2 weeks ago. I too had failed multiple times, but one thing I didn't give up was faith in god . Yes at times, you even swear at god and ask yourself "is this all even for real?" , but I tell you , everytime you feel like this, jump back again and continue believing in god.

And most important thing is : Seva and simran . Go to gurudwara sahib and wash utensils there. Do that kind of hardwork too. I used to do it on sundays . Did it for 11 weeks , because I had a wish in my heart. Guru sahib fulfilled my wish with an even greater thing than I had wished for, in just 10 weeks !

God is merciful , but we have to work from our side to be deserving of his grace. I had got cuts two times on my hand while doing seva of washing utensils in gurudwaras, but I think of them as grace marks.
Guru sahib has blessed me , blessed me with more than I had desired for . He will bless you too !

and keep doing ardas and keep talking to the guru (via ardas) and hearing back the guru's reply (via taking a hukamnama) .

alternately, simply grab a chicken, kill it, rummage through its entails, burn them and chant 'Balle Balle' and you will get whatever you wish for.

And remember, continue to believe in God, but only for as long as you get your wishes!

I think Patit Ji should focus on his career so he can feel more confident, and consider gettting married as he is marriage-agish material and use lust/romance whatever in it's prescribed setting (where it's not a hindrance but the love/lust/romance contributes to something longterm for two people on the same page)