Recent content by KiranC

oh right sorry i just scrolled up and saw the race thing at the end of the questions. You would think after writing so much i would have the ability to read properly as well!!! Many apologies!

But the question here isn't about religion it is about caste? Do you think that marrying out of caste is ok or does that tie in with what you said about tradition?

lol yeh! But if you're anything like me it takes a few times to get it right im afraid!

So when Ameet ji said she was jatt and her husband Saini, it wasn't her regarding caste as something important more that she was trying to explain the situation so we could understand...I think that's how she meant it anyway! I know that's how I meant it!

The only problem is I said i'm tharkan and my partner is jatt-thats not me thinking about my caste its the only way I knew how to explain what the problem was. Does the fact that I said that mean that I still regard caste as something in Sikhism. If I had simply said I met my partner and fell in...

ermmm no... Ameet ji said it wasn't an issue-hence it not being a problem and her not feeling pride. If she did feel that much pride then I am sure that she wouldn't have married a Saini. (not that I am insulting you Ameet ji...I mean that caste didn't matter to you...as if it did you wouldn't...

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race Thank you kds 1980!

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race I wasn't referring to all the ramgarhias in the world...i was trying to make a point. NO-caste is the issue...thats what this whole thing begun with...if money was the problem I would of joined a forum that was titled-'marriage and money' but I...

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race Ok hold up-generally when I meet people I don't ask them their caste because it doesn't matter to me. Would you rather i married a wife beating alcoholic gambling ramgaria or a decent guy whose jatt? Me and my partner were friends and...

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race Well said! Now...how to make the rest of the world see it like that...!

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race pk70 I have had time to think about what you wrote. Fair enough you think the way you do but in all honesty-money makes the world go round. Thats just the way it is-its unfortunate yes...but that doesnt make it any less true. I also do not...

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race KulwantK You said alot of things that made alot of sense! However, sometimes its hard to explore the issues especially when you get told that 'you are too young to understand everything. you just need to accept the way things are' I think I...

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race Hahahaha i'm sorry but 'I think, Kiran just avoided guys from other faiths and then just fell for him.' is not true at all. It just so happens the guy I fell in love with was the same religion as me. Like I said before-money doesn't matter...

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race Yeh thats true some women do leave work for a while. However, many women also take maternity leave (which is paid for) and then come back to work when it is finished. Its not uncommon to do that now. Lots of things need to be considered when...

Re: How many sikhs have married out of Caste/Race kds1980 I think you have misunderstood what I said. It is my parents view that he doesn't have as much money as me not mine. I do not care for things like that. But yes I work hard and have enough for me to live-that isn't bragging thats the...