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    A Marriage Question

    Narayanjot Kaur-ji Thank you for your reply. It's quite late here and i'm really exhausted. Are you're telling me I should share personal information or are you suggesting I shouldn't share personal information? I'm sorry, I just didn't understand some of the things you wrote. And i'm sorry...
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    A Marriage Question

    Thank you Lee, That's a really warm answer. Good thing everything worked out for you and your wife. The thing is, I'm first and foremost looking for a way that both me and my dad would agree upon. That's why I came here. Even thought my father asks me for help in a lot of things. He still says...
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    A Marriage Question

    No need to ask for forgiveness, that just makes me like i'm an idiot. There's no need to say sorry about anything. But I do need to thank you for asking me something that is related to the subject. No, I haven't married her yet, but i want to marry her. Please don't ask for forgiveness at any...
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    A Marriage Question

    I came here to talk ask about how I can make him happy. If there is anything in the religion that points out that if we feel happy with a person then it shouldn't matter the religion. I'm not here to be told that I have lower knowledge just because I don't study the religion my father believes...
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    A Marriage Question

    Oh, I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope it resolves itself and you, your partner and both families can be happy. I'll be sure to update you on it. My mother can understand so I've got a person in my family that understands both my and my fathers situation. Hopefully, you have one as well. I'll...
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    A Marriage Question

    Yep, but knowledge is incomplete. So is yours, maybe you're going the wrong way all together. Stop pointing out knowledge will you? It will just go against yourself and against my dads views. Ofcourse, I'm not saying I have only met bad Sikhs. I've met a lot of good hearted Sikhs too. That goes...
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    Tejwant Singh-ji. No need to apologize, I'm sorry for over reactive. It was late yesterday and there had been an argument between me and my father. I'm really sorry about that. Yea, The ism thing. I'm sure you can put ism behind nearly anything. hmm, let me put it in a simpler way. I don't...
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    A Marriage Question

    I think Caspian actually gave a really good answer for that. That's somewhat I would've written. He is old, so I don't expect him to see things from my point of view. Also, i'm not trying to make myself comfortable with marriage outside of religion. I'm trying to satisfy my parents and trying to...
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    A Marriage Question

    Point 1 <o:p> </o:p> Your father should not be blackmailing you like this. It doesn't stop him. I actually told him that he was blackmailing me, he denies it. He says it's not blackmailing. <o:p> </o:p> Point 2 <o:p> </o:p> You too should respect your father’s wishes. I don't interfere...
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    A Marriage Question

    Thanks Narayanjot Kaur. You're right, I'll have to try things better on my own. Haha! That's a real nice answer Caspian, I've considering calling my fathers bluff before. I think he would still like to us to stay as a family. What you wrote about being happy in the long run, how did that EVER...
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    A Marriage Question

    Yes he deserves respect for what he believes in. I'm not trying to take anything away from him. The thing is, I just don't believe in any religion. I don't want to have arguments or fights over religion with my future wife. Me and my dad have been fighting about Sikhism for a long time. He...
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    A Marriage Question

    Both of my parents are really nice people and understand most of the things. My mother and father are open minded, but my father is strict with one thing, religion. If he gets angry at something he shows his action with irritation, and then denies it that he ever said something like that. He...
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