| Re: need urgent advice....... I am curious about the age of this young man. If he is very young, it may be that he is acting immature and impulsive. There is more chance that he may change. Still, Waheguruhelpme ji, you should be very careful. I feel strongly about this because I spent five years with a controlling, manipulative, lying man. I was so attached to him that I did not want to admit to myself how bad things were. He became more mean slowly over time, and my self esteem became worse over time. Near the end I felt like I wanted to either kill myself or kill him. If he had not died of cancer, I am sure that is what would have happened eventually. I'm not saying that this will happen to you for certain, I might be really overreacting, but I am worried about you because of how your young man has behaved. Got anything to share on This Topic? Why not share your immediate thoughts/reaction with us! Login Now! or Sign Up Today! to share your views... Gurfateh! |