16-Feb-2011, 07:36 AM
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a.mother ji and others, I do believe we need to recognize that most happy marriages are a result of the level of maturity, mutual respect and love between husband and wife. Of course happy families on both sides are icing on the cake of marriage bliss.
At a practical level as people say, 
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16-Feb-2011, 15:10 PM
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A type fo Marital bliss ?? or samjhauta with circumstances ?? Happiness ?? of a sorts ha ha | | The following member appreciates Gyani Jarnail Singh Ji for the above message. | |
16-Feb-2011, 15:15 PM
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IN a Punjab Rural community you not only marry a husband/wife..you marry aFamily and you marry a street neighbourhood..and you marry a Village community....no "marriage" is an island !! | | The following member appreciates Gyani Jarnail Singh Ji for the above message. | |
16-Feb-2011, 16:22 PM
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Randip Singh – We are Both of same religion and caste. Sikh Jatt
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16-Feb-2011, 16:32 PM
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Randip Singh – We are Both of same religion and caste. Sikh JattReference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=34495Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=34495 Ambarsaria – Thank you for your response it gives me strength. To be honest I am very confused. I think I needed these different views and opinions to allow me to think of all the different aspects. a.mother I appreciate your views and would not put this pressure on my daughter or son, it just seems his family are not happy with the idea of me but I love him dearly and just want to opportunity to meet them to see if they change their views, I just don’t want to give up and forget him with out a fight, but am I fighting a losing battle. My views are not to give up on love with out a battle because I maybe throwing away what could be an amazing future. Thank you all again x |
16-Feb-2011, 23:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Gyani Jarnail Singh  IN a Punjab Rural community you not only marry a husband/wife..you marry aFamily and you marry a street neighbourhood..and you marry a Village community....no "marriage" is an island !! | Gyani ji, I think this is true meaning of marriage to care about everybody family,friends and community, but todays world people don't have that much patient. We can see daily selfish people. If we can't sit together i call that HELL not marriage. After all this still there are very some people who fulfill their duties toward husband's family. |
16-Feb-2011, 23:35 PM
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star girl ji , It is nice to hear from you about same caste and religion(one less hurdle). And as you said it just seems his family are not happy with the idea of me . That is really i cannot swallow. Is that hurting your self respect? When they know you are with him and they are asking him to look for girls is that not hurting you? Choice is yours. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=34495
And ambarsaria ji, you are right when you laugh world laughs with you ( it doesn't matter if you are a good person ,gunda or mavaali) but when you weep you are all alone.( it doesn't matter if you are honest daani or well wisher for everyone) | | The following members appreciate a.mother Ji for the above message. | | 
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