Very true singh bj ji, Our life is very similar to a pencil
Prabh jee created us and makes us able to do many great things but this target will be achieved if we allow ourselves to be held in someone’s hand (means in the company of saad sangat, guidance through a true Guru, friend)
During this life we will face many painful experiences. But these help us to make emotionally strong. This also helps us to kill our ego, greed, lust, attachment and anger.
Prabh jee blessed us with logical mind. We can learn from our mistakes and can correct them.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22528
Prabh jee blessed us with nice soul but this soul affected by our inner beauty. What we think, what we do? So important is inner beauty not outer beauty of anyone.
No matter what the condition is, we should respect HIS order and try to follow HIS guidelines.

mkm