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| | | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? Quote:
Originally Posted by Randip Singh Ironically, Mr Atheist, many of the people who I know who do believe in caste are also atheists. Oxymoron or what hey? | Randip ji
This is an interesting observation that you make. One thing may explain it: the loss of a concept of a loving, compassionate Creator, who is without any enmity toward anyone. I cannot see how the identification of Akaal with the forces and energies of the Universe can overcome the prejudices of caste and race. One is seemingly relieved of the need to see the divine in everyone. Too impersonal. Just my 2 cents.
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| | | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? Quote:
Originally Posted by Randip Singh Ironically, Mr Atheist, many of the people who I know who do believe in caste are also atheists. Oxymoron or what hey? | That is quite ironic. The misconception people have is that atheism is a dogma, a religion, a faith, a philosophy, etc. It is NONE of those. The one and only similarity (other than being humans and stuff) that atheists have is that they do not believe in god. I could care less about caste, and I wish I didn't know that my ancestors were apparently carpenters. Who cares?? Oh, apparently all of India (or at least enough of a majority to make this antiquated idea still an issue). People that I have met that care about caste have all been Indian, and none were atheist. Such hypocrisy, the religion preaches no caste but in practice they prefer the same caste (yes yes I know, not ALL indians are like this, but again it is enough to make it still an issue).
What is more ironic is that religion specifically preaches being humble - yet the most arrogant people I have ever met are religious. Another reason I don't like religion. | | The following member appreciates Atheist Ji for the above message. | | 
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| | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? Quote:
Originally Posted by Atheist That is quite ironic. The misconception people have is that atheism is a dogma, a religion, a faith, a philosophy, etc. | Actually you couldn't be further from the Truth. 'Atheists are just as dogmatic as theists, and the only reasonable person is an agnostic.' by RichardDawkins.net - RichardDawkins.net The Fundamentalist Dogma of Atheism
Also here on Channel 4 there was an excellent documentary on how Atheists have become as dogmatic as religious nuts.
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| | | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? Dear Randip Singh Ji,
As a typical theist ploy, you took an atheistic quote out of context to prove your point. What you pasted was not a statement, it was something used for discussion: Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=8550
START QUOTE Atheists are just as dogmatic as theists, and the only reasonable person is an agnostic. by RichardDawkins.net
Atheists are just as dogmatic as theists, and the only reasonable person is an agnostic.
Use the comment space below to present your rebuttal. Let's try and be clear and concise, as if this were to be used in a debate. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=8550
END QUOTE
That's what the site says. It's NOT Richard Dawkins STATING that atheists are just as dogmatic, it is him (or someone else) posting a seemingly controversial statement to see how people would attack it - as an exercise. You just saw that one statement and pasted it on here to make it look like Richard Dawkins is calling himself dogmatic.
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| | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? Quote:
Originally Posted by Atheist Dear Randip Singh Ji,
As a typical theist ploy, you took an atheistic quote out of context to prove your point. What you pasted was not a statement, it was something used for discussion:
START QUOTE Atheists are just as dogmatic as theists, and the only reasonable person is an agnostic. by RichardDawkins.net
Atheists are just as dogmatic as theists, and the only reasonable person is an agnostic.
Use the comment space below to present your rebuttal. Let's try and be clear and concise, as if this were to be used in a debate.
END QUOTE
That's what the site says. It's NOT Richard Dawkins STATING that atheists are just as dogmatic, it is him (or someone else) posting a seemingly controversial statement to see how people would attack it - as an exercise. You just saw that one statement and pasted it on here to make it look like Richard Dawkins is calling himself dogmatic.
Please don't take quotes out of context. Your cooperation is appreciated. | You are missing my point. The link is to illustrate that some people see Atheism as a dogma today. Let me explain why:
1) Atheism is based in rationality? Yes
2) Religion is based in belief? Yes
Belief cannot be explained through rationality, so never the twain shall meet.
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| | | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? Dear Randip Singh Ji,
Thank you for your response. The link is to illustrate that some people see Atheism as a dogma today.
Yes, some people may see that. There are also some people that think the earth is flat (there is a Flat Earth Society - I'm not joking). That of course would not suggest that it's really true (those people who believe the earth is flat are simply wrong). Atheism is simply the non-belief or the dis-belief in god. You are an a-leprechaunist right? You simply don't believe in leprechauns, but it would be absurd to suggest that you have a "dogma" that preaches against the existence of leprechauns.
Bottom line is, no matter what, there are good chrisitans and bad christians, good sikhs and bad sikhs, good hindus and bad hindus, good agnostics and bad agnostics, and good atheists and bad atheists. I will be the first to admit that, and I will be the first to admit that I have done wrong things in my life (would anyone else like to conclude anything different about themselves?). I would argue that the thing that defines one's character is what they do and what they learn from the bad mistakes they've made. Making mistakes is simply human.
Anyone who is atheist that acts poorly or attempts to act in a dogmatic way is also wrong...but atheism doesn't teach that...atheism doesn't "teach" anything, just like a-leprechaunism doesn't "teach" anything - they are both disbeliefs in a fictitious character. So by itself (in and of itself), atheism is not a dogma. Those who treat it like one, atheist or not, are wrong. Similarly, by itself a-leprechaunism is not a dogma. Those who are foolish enough to use it as a dogma need to see my friend (who is training to be a psychiatrist). 1) Atheism is based in rationality? Yes
Agreed (just like a-leprechaunism) 2) Religion is based in belief? Yes
Agreed, although this is not exactly an argument in its favor (the Flat Earth Society is based in belief too). Belief cannot be explained through rationality, so never the twain shall meet.
Again, not an argument in favor of "belief" since after all the Flat Earth Society is based on belief, and it would be absurd to simply say "well the Flat Earth Society is based on belief, so no matter how much rational proof you provide that the earth is round, you can't challenge my 'belief' that it is indeed flat." What we have nowadays is Atheists trying to tell religious people that belief is not rational......well duhh?
Yes, we do have atheists saying that. Believing in leprechauns is also not rational. It is fine to admit that it is from "The Journal of Duh" and I'm actually pleased you did. Lots of christians tell me that their religion is completely rational (I particularly like how they say people used to live 800-900 years but now we live less because we are sinners - as if people did not sin back then...and since the life expectancy is getting longer and longer, does that mean we are now sinning less and less but not quite as less as in biblical times?).
Religion is non-rational but that's the not the big issue. The Flat Earth Society is non-rational but 99.9999% of everyone could care less about it, right? It doesn't bother you and you don't lose sleep over it right? If you do, see my friend.
What we're trying to say is that not only is religion non-rational, it can be dangerous. For example, in the US there is a christian dentist in Texas who seems to have a lot of influence over what is written in textbooks that elementary school children read. Because of his religion, he would like nothing more than to have his creationist fairy tails in those textbooks to indoctrinate children from an early age. So his non-rational belief is seriously becoming dangerous. If he were to succeed, I would have to send my kids to a private school.
Let us not forget suicide bombers, the crusades, & the Aztecs who ritualistically (per their religion) cut out the heart of someone and while it was still beating threw it down a long stair case in some ****** egregious practice to please their god. So it goes beyond non-rational...religion becomes dangerous. Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=8550Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=8550
Of course, I will admit that Sikhism is light-years ahead of other religions. If it were a race toward the truth, and all religions were contestants, it wouldn't even be a close match. That's how rational Sikhism is compared to other religions.
The concept of caste is out-dated and, while some may hypothetically say that "back then" it had a role, it has absolutely no role today. People worrying about it, arguing in families over it (ie marrying out of caste), and even caring about it are wasting their time. I could care less what "caste" I am and in this day in age it's unbelievable to know that I have been rejected by girls because I wasn't a jatt.
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| | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? Quote:
Originally Posted by Atheist Dear Randip Singh Ji,
Thank you for your response. The link is to illustrate that some people see Atheism as a dogma today.
Yes, some people may see that. There are also some people that think the earth is flat (there is a Flat Earth Society - I'm not joking). That of course would not suggest that it's really true (those people who believe the earth is flat are simply wrong). Atheism is simply the non-belief or the dis-belief in god. You are an a-leprechaunist right? You simply don't believe in leprechauns, but it would be absurd to suggest that you have a "dogma" that preaches against the existence of leprechauns.
Bottom line is, no matter what, there are good chrisitans and bad christians, good sikhs and bad sikhs, good hindus and bad hindus, good agnostics and bad agnostics, and good atheists and bad atheists. I will be the first to admit that, and I will be the first to admit that I have done wrong things in my life (would anyone else like to conclude anything different about themselves?). I would argue that the thing that defines one's character is what they do and what they learn from the bad mistakes they've made. Making mistakes is simply human.
Anyone who is atheist that acts poorly or attempts to act in a dogmatic way is also wrong...but atheism doesn't teach that...atheism doesn't "teach" anything, just like a-leprechaunism doesn't "teach" anything - they are both disbeliefs in a fictitious character. So by itself (in and of itself), atheism is not a dogma. Those who treat it like one, atheist or not, are wrong. Similarly, by itself a-leprechaunism is not a dogma. Those who are foolish enough to use it as a dogma need to see my friend (who is training to be a psychiatrist). 1) Atheism is based in rationality? Yes
Agreed (just like a-leprechaunism) 2) Religion is based in belief? Yes
Agreed, although this is not exactly an argument in its favor (the Flat Earth Society is based in belief too). Belief cannot be explained through rationality, so never the twain shall meet.
Again, not an argument in favor of "belief" since after all the Flat Earth Society is based on belief, and it would be absurd to simply say "well the Flat Earth Society is based on belief, so no matter how much rational proof you provide that the earth is round, you can't challenge my 'belief' that it is indeed flat." What we have nowadays is Atheists trying to tell religious people that belief is not rational......well duhh?
Yes, we do have atheists saying that. Believing in leprechauns is also not rational. It is fine to admit that it is from "The Journal of Duh" and I'm actually pleased you did. Lots of christians tell me that their religion is completely rational (I particularly like how they say people used to live 800-900 years but now we live less because we are sinners - as if people did not sin back then...and since the life expectancy is getting longer and longer, does that mean we are now sinning less and less but not quite as less as in biblical times?).
Religion is non-rational but that's the not the big issue. The Flat Earth Society is non-rational but 99.9999% of everyone could care less about it, right? It doesn't bother you and you don't lose sleep over it right? If you do, see my friend.
What we're trying to say is that not only is religion non-rational, it can be dangerous. For example, in the US there is a christian dentist in Texas who seems to have a lot of influence over what is written in textbooks that elementary school children read. Because of his religion, he would like nothing more than to have his creationist fairy tails in those textbooks to indoctrinate children from an early age. So his non-rational belief is seriously becoming dangerous. If he were to succeed, I would have to send my kids to a private school.
Let us not forget suicide bombers, the crusades, & the Aztecs who ritualistically (per their religion) cut out the heart of someone and while it was still beating threw it down a long stair case in some ****** egregious practice to please their god. So it goes beyond non-rational...religion becomes dangerous.
Of course, I will admit that Sikhism is light-years ahead of other religions. If it were a race toward the truth, and all religions were contestants, it wouldn't even be a close match. That's how rational Sikhism is compared to other religions.
The concept of caste is out-dated and, while some may hypothetically say that "back then" it had a role, it has absolutely no role today. People worrying about it, arguing in families over it (ie marrying out of caste), and even caring about it are wasting their time. I could care less what "caste" I am and in this day in age it's unbelievable to know that I have been rejected by girls because I wasn't a jatt.
I hereby remove my caste, I am now a neutral human being without caste. |
Who says I am arguing in favour of belief?
What I am saying is Religion and Atheism should not try and mix.
Why should religious people who believe the Earth is flat try and convince atheism of their belief?
Vice a versa why should Atheists, try and tell people who believe something their belief is irrational?
What I am saying is two are distinct and separate. We have a mess now, where both sides seem to esposing their views to denigrate the other sides through an almost "dogmatic" view that one side is completely correct.
Its like saying an apple is better than an iguana.
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| | | | | Re: How Many Sikhs Have Married Out Of Caste/Race? It is my own thinking-- Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=8550
A SIKH shod not marry a Non SIKH girl, b'coz it will create lot of problem for the couple and as well as for the children. Couple will be of different cultural background so it will lead to difference in thoughts. I was in a same situation but in the end I quit my friendship. I supported my decision on these points- she dint know how to worship(PATH), rules, norms of SIKHISM. So how she will convey the message of our GURUS to our children. how they will come to know that we have such a rich culture. | | The following member appreciates coolbaldeep Ji for the above message. | | 
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