Virginity, a must for a happy marriage?

HGNIS · #10 (**permalink**) 30-Jan-2012, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by harry haller

This post only verifies the current state of Women in India, there are times when they are little more than possessions like a car or a washing machine, and what do you do when you get your brand new car, and there is some wear on the steering wheel, well, you take it back and kick up a fuss, this car was supposed to be new, not second hand,.

Well surprise surprise, Women are more than mere baubles to be flashed around parties, (oh yes, she was brand new, we dont do second hand), no they are people, just like well, just like men, I would love to see a big fuss being made by a Singhni because her husband was not intact (I want a refund, he is second hand, I do not do second hand).

Brilliantly said. That article reads like nothing more than patriarchal propaganda. Women are human beings, with desires and and needs just like men. Men will forgive other men for not being virgins and say "boys being boys" but gasp in horror if they find out a girl they are with had a previous relationship. Step into the real world gentlemen, women are dating, women are looking for partners who treat them as equals and women do not want to be viewed as property or pristine objects to have. If a lady loses her virginity, she is no less of a lady, and she does not deserve to be chastised for it.

harry haller · #11 (**permalink**) 30-Jan-2012, 15:02 PM

Maybe instead of letting the ladies catch up with our reckless behaviour we should try and behave more like them!