Advise Please - Dealing with Hurdles

Mai Harinder Kaur · #28 (**permalink**) 04-Feb-2011, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Gyani Jarnail Singh

Guru Piayario Jios,
I am in constant touch with him via phone. He seems to be getting slightly better - slowly. It may be illusion..or real..only Guru Ji knows but he sounds more confident, more settled and calmer than before....
I am trying to get an internet connection nearby to where he lives so we cna better communicate via gmail/skype etc. Also he needs some organic food items like cold pressed Virgin coconut oil which is difficult to source in Punjab ( here too in Malaysia ). Hope to get a bottle or two to post to him.
On the whole I am genuinely happy for his recovery even though slight. Guru Ji Bless. Thank you for asking Jios..our combined prayers very vital.

He is most blessed to have been befriended by you.

More important than his physical state (although that is important, of course) are his spiritual and emotional states. I am happy to hear that those are improving.

a.mother · #29 (**permalink**) 04-Feb-2011, 07:57 AM

Gyani Ji thank you so very much for the info.

Ambarsaria · #30 (**permalink**) 04-Feb-2011, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Mai Harinder Kaur

He is most blessed to have been befriended by you.

More important than his physical state (although that is important, of course) are his spiritual and emotional states. I am happy to hear that those are improving.

Mai Harinder Kaur ji, Navdeep88ji and adi Nanaki ji sorry I have not paid attention to this thread.

Gyani ji thanks for the update on the young man in India. As mai ji said and I can paraphrase it as,

Mind before matter
- If the young man is in Chardhi Kla his own body is more likely to right itself as I said before, "what ails the body, the body can prevail"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...&v=jkfvNRnYehk

May God bless all and happiness and bliss prevail.

Sat Sri Akal.

kajal123 · #31 (**permalink**) 08-Feb-2011, 16:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Ambarsaria

Navdeep88 ji one has to look at the situation.

At work few years back, I saw a weird sticker on the back of a car. I had known the woman and knew she was very beautiful but was heart broken from some relationship issues.

The sticker read,

"I have been Happy, ever since I gave up hope."

It took me a mighty long time to figure it out. One has to do their best rather than create hope and let the outcome follow. I am reading your "faith" word in more liberal interpretation of hope, wish, sense of certainty.

So out of all this one has to say to themselves,

Did I do all I could?
Is it the past?

If you answer yes to the above two then you have to do the following,

Do I want to live in the future or past?
What are my options to go forward?

If you decide to live into the future then select an option from hereon (get advice, help, dialog with who you feel comfortable with).

As happens so often, there will come a day when you will not even think about such an issue in the future.

My object is to not give just advice but hopefully share something I have learnt. I do realize sometimes it is easier said than done but one has to persevere.

Sat Sri Akal.

Nice post.........He is most blessed to have been befriended by you.

More important than his physical state......thanks for share with all....

manj kr · #32 (**permalink**) 26-Feb-2011, 03:16 AM

Navdeepji,

I have dealt with many hurdles in my life...and to be honest they have all happened for a reason. At the time things seem bad and you feel that nothing will go right...but after dark there is always sunshine. Someone once said to me that bad times never last and you may be suffering now but the ppl that may have caused the hurt will also get there day.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/general-discussion/34092-advise-please-dealing-with-hurdles.html
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=34092
Jaisa karo vaisa baro -- I always believe that waheguru will do whats right for me...even if it hurts...trust and have faith in him and give him the steering wheel of your life and even if things do not go to plan...just remember that they have for a reason..maybe to teach you something or to make u a better person
I know now that hurdles in my life have bought me closer to waheguru and my whole thinking is so different now...i cant explain but all i know that whatever happens in my life i will accept - good or bad.....but when you have faith we can deal with things in a better and wiser way..
i hope this helps and hope you sort out ur hurdles and if you ever need to talk then inbox me..
take care

spnadmin · #33 (**permalink**) 26-Feb-2011, 05:15 AM

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