Sat Nam, Ji!
I have read the above posts, and then your post again, and one thing I am seeing is that you are lacking a sewa.
Guru has given each one of us talents and gifts. These are meant to be shared with the world at large, to make this world a nicer place. What are your talents and gifts, Ji? Do you know? Explore them! You may find you have more than you thought at first!Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/general-discussion/22303-my-fake-smile.html
Then, do sewas with them. Maybe you have a gift of helping others understand complicated concepts, like Mathematics. Have you thought about tutoring someone who is having difficulty in Math?
The other thing I saw is that you are looking for success. Make sure you know just what you mean by the word, "Success". Does it mean lots of money? There is nothing wrong with that, but after all your bills are paid, what else can you do with lots of money? You can do many good things for a lot of people with it! You can start foundations for literacy, help build libraries, hospitals, all kinds of things to benefit the community and those in need!Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=22303
Find something bigger than just your own interests. I read that true Happiness and Success is getting involved with something bigger than you, and working with it to make things better for those who need your help.
Oftenly, taking a Hukam can be very helpful in pointing you in good directions.
Keep us posted!
Cheers and Blessings to you!