You know, there are many things that we wish had happened differently, whether it was pain caused to a loved one. or a direction in life that changed. But we have to remind ourselves that we're not here alone, not by any chance. A careless God? No. A God that teaches through experience & pain? Yes.

gosh, i thought i would have more to say on this topic, but not really, as it stands, time passes, new things come... you must be ready for it, or you will get stuck in the imobile...

Enough with the arguments,
enough with the anxiety,
enough with the convolutedness,
enough with the worry,
enough with the malignancy,

enough with it.

enough with the need to control,
enough with the need to hold on,
enough with comparing and contrasting,
enough with holding onto ideas of what Should be.

come acceptance of what is,
come openess of heart,
come openess of speach,
come clarity,...