dear mai jee thankyoufor your reply.as a sikh i am first and formost a a member of the khalsa army that guru gobind singh jee created.for me the dastar of a sikh is a statement to everyone that sees you telling them that they are safe because a member of gods army is hear.a sikh is not hear to protct themself there religion there family but as a sikh it is our resposiblty too pertect the entire world! a saint supai or a supai saint has no diffrence at all just words.all religions cultures teach more or less the same thing but its people who change them and thats why its our job to show the true path of god.remember a true sikh carrys a sword for a reason and as a human it is all of our basic rite to be traeted with respect and dignaty.you may be able too forgive and turn the other cheak too people who do bad too you but you must remember these people will carry on too do bad upon others wich will also be on your head.i really hope i am saining this in the humbelist of ways and mean no offence my sister but this is the sikhi ofthe guru meeri and peeri both as important as each other "worser than the person who does the paap is the person who quitly takes it" wha guru jee ka khalsa whaguru jee kee fateh"