, not exactly, what I meant was, it doesn't help in the fact with many girls that are liberal in their values being attracted to sardars, when the sardars are also picking up women.

In some areas in the UK, sardars have a rep for being players, so the the less respectable type women seem to go for sardars as well. And I was sdaying in my case, I don't seem to have a problem attracting these sorts of women, but I actually find it difficult to find, nevermind attracting, women that are more cultural/traditional.

I don't think there is a problem with sardars attracting singhnis, or is there?
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-youth/19409-regarding-sikh-girls.html
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=19409
Unfortunately for me, in the past, most of the girls that came from religious families that have been attracted to me, may have had looks, but have somehow shown a bit too much excess baggage for my liking. Some of them may have taken amrit, but they can't really get rid of the excess baggage, and some have even gained more. They were looking for men, because quite frankly, they had ex-bfs before, so it was normal for them to get a man. So from then on I decided to go more for traditional/cultural types, for whom values come before religion and stuff