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Originally Posted by bhen_bhago_di  Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji ki Fateh bhaji
i really dnt want to sound rude..but ive heard the same question asked again and again..but i never really get a str8 ansa to my question that im going to ask u...
im assuming that the girl ur talking about ws a good amritdhari kurri hu keeps her kesh and follows Guru Jis rehat maryada ??..if so id questn the ammount of sikhi she has..if not.. then bhaji id have to ask u..how many keshdhari sikh bhenjis u have approached?
again i dnt mean to sound rude..but theres always 2 sides to the story
fair enough alot of punjabi monia (cut hair) girls do prefer cut hair boys and some amritdhari girls are the same..but from wot ive seen..the oppisite is possibly more common..that guys dnt prefer the amritdhari/ kheshdhari girls.
Id realy like to hear ur oppinions on this..and if n e 1 disagrees with anything i have said plz do reply
Bhulchuk maaf karni jii
Wahegiri ji Ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh |
i agree with this 100%. i think the problem is that these guys who would cut their hair for a girl actually PREFER cut haired girls, with waxed legs and threaded eyebrows. if they were talking to gursikh girls, no one would suggest they cut their hair... but they have what's called a "double standard". they want a girl who looks like a bollywood star while they keep their turban and beard. and they wonder why little miss bollywood has no interest in them.
i will never understand this. why do sikh men prefer girls who cut their hair? and then complain that it's really the other way out?
how many of you guys who are complaining so much would go for a girl with heavy eyebrows or a mustache? if those things are a problem for you, think long and hard about why you're keeping your own kes, and meditate on the word "hypocrite".
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Originally Posted by kds1980 Dear jasleen
The pressure of society,could force a boy to cut his hair.If his cousin's,friend's are all having cut hair and you will find girls dying over them while despite being respectful and good you cannot get a girl so its obvious if a boy want's to cut hair.What I don't understand is that why religious sikh girls like you don't want to accept that this problem exists in sikh community.If a person tells me that sikh men do plenty of drinking then I am not going to argue with him because I know that sikh men drink though there is hardly any man in my family who drinks. |
because if religious sikh guys were going for religious sikh girls, this "problem" wouldn't exist.
but instead they want to keep their kes and marry girls who wax and trim and pluck and thread.
sorry, it's probably not gonna happen.
interestingly, there are four mixed race marriages at my gurdwara, and ALL of the men have their kes.
if your own women don't like you as you are, maybe it's time to think outside the box.
(don't kill me, i'm just joking. i know i'll probably get death threats from some angry punjabi woman for this...
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