thanks sikhpreet for replying so it means we both agree on the point that marrying outside ones own religion is a compromise which i have been writting from beggining ,i understand it was not against me or any one as i in my first post also mentioned religion is something one must feel from inside u can not just change ones religion ,i was agreeing with u all from the start even if u had had written about muslim men ,i know what u mean but still let me add there are 3 followers in islam wahabi, sunni and shia ,wahabi,s(the taliban sort) are not only trying to do that to ur girls but also with sunni and shia but we can,t blame them coz it,s our girls who are not religious enough to keep their feet on ground,but some times we also see ppl converting to another religion when they feel more relaxed just like u see christian,s converting to sikhi