Just to add athing
Recently I was reading book by Sant Niranjan singhji ( Mystics Reflection...)
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-sikhi-sikhism/1216-amrit-for-women-different-why.htmlReference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=1216
In the book he replied to the question of including women as punj pyare in amrit sanchaar as follows
The women has not availled their right to do so when Gurur Gobind ji asked for the five head so how can they now ask for same right .
Actually I was not satisfied with the answer what do you think about it Jarnail Singh ji