26-Jan-2006, 04:28 AM
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| Re: The Cripple Effect !
Quote: | If one day you decide to get really angry (very unrelaxing) at someone, | Knowing that 'anger' is bad & especially knowing its 'cripple effect', it is not a concious decision on one's part to get angry at someone. Also when one has 'learnt' that this particular person is a 'trouble-maker'; how can one not be cautious about that person's presence around him/her. Why would a person, in good mind, would 'welcome' such a person around him/her again...in other words, why is there any need to remain positive, connect and communicate effectively, positively and harmoniously? Isn't it better to forget and forgive those bad moments and live peacefully without such a person in life again? Or the author is trying to say that 'forgiveness' only reflects in 'welcoming' that person back in your life and still not get angry around him/her? or should I add 'wait to get angry and hurt again till this person shows his/her real colors 'again'?
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