Oh Dear , there's not to get offended...
Amritdharee is not the one who follows the rules and regulations , but a person who has the Amrit of Love Within Him .
Love is more powerful than anything on this earth .
The message of Gurunanak Dev ji also have the same essence .
Do you know that Dog is the only creature on this planet who has to do no work to earn his living , but earns his living out of Love .
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-sikhi-sikhism/5495-to-those-who-once-took-amrit.html
You should not be bothered about what others are doing , If you have read and understood Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji completely , then I hope you would have understood that nothing happens without the Command of God .