You are already married
? What do you understand from Hukam the will of god? Explain Just sitting there and doing nothing is no option , in my eyes no hukam. You have to work for everything - like you have to work to find guru ji - it is work to keep rehat and so on..
Sikh is a learner(he has to fight (overcome lust, maya etc..)) in all views - and how can you learn if you do nothing?
Tell you husband - he will not refuse I guess. But maybe he will get hit in his ego? Itīs everytime the same imagination that the man is the money earner and the women the houholder - but to reach god both have to work - just an example-