Jasminsandhu ji
The Sikh Rehat Maryada does not say how long a kirpan should be or how it should be worn, only that a practicing Sikh should wear a kirpan as part of the 5 kakkars. So your elders were wise not to make up an explanation based on hear-say.
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I did a little searching and could not find the answer for you. My own inclination is like your elders : not to invent.
Maybe another forum member will be able to answer from the perspective of history. Good luck.