I think both the adults and youth dropepd the ball on this issue. At some point in a persons lifetime, you have to take charge of your direction and seek your religion. Of course, the some parents don't help by not setting a good example by doing the wrong things themselves and not teaching their children more about sikhi.
Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-youth/4981-sikh-girls-confused-lot-parents-blame.html

Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=4981
just a little add in.