[quote=Ajmer singh Randhawa;103720]Gyani ji, Guru fateh !!
Thanks for encouraging me to start a new thread naming 'CHAUTHA PAD'. it s to feed the psychic need of the soul.I and almost everybody is indulged in the life of 'TEEN PAD', and pass our whole life in satisfyinf our needs within. There are a few person like me who wish to achieve this life of Chautha pad but is it possible to achieve while passing our life in GRAHSTHI or family. We have certain duties imposed socially to carry on to look after the elders and take care of the family. Gurbaani denies to take care of family( as father,mother,son daughter etc. no one belongs to us and similarly we are not for them)but on the contrary it enforces to practice meditation while being in family. How is it possible?
Please share your views.
Ajmer Singh Randhawa.[/quot
GURU PIAYARIO JIOS
AJMER SINGH JI,
we are BOTh same age. IN Fact you look younger with black beard..mine is all white.
Apart from that... I have FULL FAITH IN GURU JI..and Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.
Hence I FOLLOW GURU JI....all the way. Just CATCH hold of the little finger of Guru ji..and NEVER LET GO..no matter how "experienced" we FEEL we have become with age !! we are forever nannaeh children in Guru Jis hands...IF in our Hankaar we let go..we FALL DOWN. Guaranteed.
Here I answer briefly your UNDERLINED question....on the Women in our Life..household dutioes etc...and Naam kammaii.
1. Family..GRISHTHEE JEEVAN....far from being a liability..a dhucharr...a set back...etc ITS the BEST WAY. ALL Previous sages, brahmgianis, devtas, swamis, rishis, yogis, naaths, etc etc etc... HATED HOUSEHOLDERS WAY...they said this is the biggest BARRIER...Woman is the Biggest Maya..way to HELL..she will stop and destroy any man's naam japp/naam kamaii etc etc.. Some even said a mere look at a woman is enough to send you to HELL forever...Guru ji sad..SO kion mnadah akheyeah jit jammeh Rajaan...SHE gave YOU this opportunity to see this world..how can she send you to HELL ?? Nine months she carried you...IN HER BODY... FOR YEARS she fed you from her BODY...she send you to HELL ?? is this a JOKE ?? a REVENGE of the UNGRATEFUL MAN !! AKIRTGHANN..worst crime in Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. BUT if we fail to have FULL FAITH IN Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji..and GO WANDERING...in the "JUNGLE" of granths..vedas..mannus simrtees..charitars, stories of women viles, tall tales..etc etc and BELIEVE THAT RUBBISH as equal to Gurbani...tehn we are DOING EXACTLY what the SIDHS..the YOGIS..the Naaths..etc were DOING when Guru naanak Ji Confronted them and ADMONSHED them in Sidh Ghost...BTW Sidh...GHHOSHT..is TALKING...DEBATING...DISCUSSING...!!!! Guru Ji is NOT saying..LOOK here listen to ME..I am the GURU..either LISTEN to ME or SHUT UP !! END thsi here and NOW...He wasnt like US..his Sikhs...HE is GURU NANAK..the ever patient..the ever vigilant..the ever TRUTHFUL..the ever sweet, mitth bollrra ji har sajan mera..kadeh na boleh kaurra ji....although as YOUNG as a mere "boy" compared to the LONG BEARDS,..jattadharees of age reaching hundreds of years...HE is LISTENED TO...as He speaks with AUTHORITY...of TRUTH. That TRUTH is with us in Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. we just have to LOOK...with DEVOTION and TRUTH in our HEARTS...Reference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/sikh-sikhi-sikhism/25433-chautha-pad-a-spiritual-life.htmlReference:: Sikh Philosophy Network http://www.sikhphilosophy.net/showthread.php?t=25433
BUT GURU NANAK JI went UP RIVER....against the Flow of EVERYONE ELSE. GURU JI said HOUSEHOLDER is COMPULSORY. ALL GURUS married and had families...some had so many DAUGHTERS too....just like some of us....such a big responsibility...all the Gurus married off their sons and daughters like all of us do...taking care of EVERYTHING..and also doing Naam kamaii of the HIGHEST ORDER. Every body said this is IMPOSSIBLE...how to do naam japp kamaii with a woman sleeping next to you ??? GURU JI said NO..thats the BEST and EASIEST WAY....stay in the POND..among the dirt and squalor..and KEEP AFLOAT like the Kanwal Flower !!!.
THE Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji is FULL of this PRACTICAL ADVICE !! a Guru ka SIKh who has full FAITH and devotion can achieve what GURU JI ACHIEVED..so easily...that is not my words..its GURU JIS GUARANTEE...in Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.
Thank you Ji..Keep in Chardeekalla.