hello, im a filipina, really inlove in punjabi guy, sikhs religion,,i dont know all about punjabi and about culture and thier religion,, but when i met my bf,i search about his culture and about this, i become desperate and become hopeless because i found out that punjabi is only for punjabi,,,the family will the one to choose to be marry of thier son and daughter,,im so sad because i really love my bf,,even he told me that hes the one to choose who he will love with,, but i know someday that come family will still dicides,,i know hes 35 now and he loves me because he told me that,,but i know his family will not allow me to love him,,i dont know why he came to my life,,i dont know whats the reason of GOD why he let this guy came to my life,, i dont know why i fall inlove to this guy even i dont really know who is he ,,all i just know im so happy if hes with me and i love him so much more than he ever know,,i keep hoping that he will never leave me,, but i know he respect his parents,, there will be time he will choose if he will follow his parents dicision or his dicision..i learn in SLUMDOG MILLIONIER ,THAT NO MATTER WHAT HAPPEN NEVER GIVE UP,, but how come i my bf will give up our relationship someday because of culture,, its really hurt in my part,, im so hopeless and desperate ,,i love him so much,,so now im so confuse... i know what to do,, sorry if i tell this even its not fit in this topic but i want someone to talk with,,
